reposted my last question
im visiting home for december (cause i live in a different country) and im only staying for aroudn 2-3 weeks. my cousin wants to sleepover EVERY SINGLE DAY! i mean i enjoy hanging out with her and stuff, i wouldnt mind her sleeping over every once in a while, just not EVERY DAY!! what do i do? i dont wanna TELL her not to sleepover because i dont wanna hurt her feelings. her mom told me to tell her whenever the kid gets annoying so that she could forbid her from sleepingover, but i dont wanna tell her that her kid is annoying....
PLEASE HELP!
additional details, not in last question:
her house is very very very very close to where im staying (which is my grandmother's) so i cant really escape her. i see her every single day!!!
its horrible.
2006-12-25 10:58:00 · 13 answers · asked by sofia 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
tell her you have plans and that your going out..and you dont know when youll be back..lol.
2006-12-25 11:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Patty♥ 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I will ask her mom's help in this one. This is quite hard to solve with out either of the 2 possible outcomes.
1. You will spend this trip forever with her coming over. Surely the kid has other things better to do with her life? You know, maybe she also feels the same way, that she is obligated to keep the cousin from abroad company or you might say something to your relatives when you go home, such as the relatives here not being great company.
You don't know that it is also a chore for her.
2. You will just blurt it out and she will get hurt and say you are a horrible cousin and she never wants to talk to you ever again.
Here is my suggestion.
Ask to sleep over in her house. Do it once. Then she will wonder whose turn it is to come and visit. This is your opportunity to stop and break this cycle.
Say" No, lets both stay home this night. I dont really feel like a sleepover.
2006-12-25 11:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cousins could be terrible are you able to pass on your room and do something else or examine a e book and communicate tfriend on the telephone or watch television in simple terms stay faraway from them hello maby you ought to pass help mom inthe kitchen she could like that
2016-10-06 00:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were u, i'd make plans to go somewhere that she wasn't able to go to....like go visit a friend and stay gone for a day or two. She won't know when you're back home.
2006-12-25 11:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by iGNORANT GiRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you are going with friends . staying at a friends house for the night .
Tell her you need time away from her. It may upset her but she is being a pest and she is wearing out her welcome.
2006-12-25 11:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your cousin and they can be annoying but she misses you im sure and she doesnt want you to leave so she is prolly trying to spend as much time with you as possible
2006-12-25 11:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Makayla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur goin to a R rated movie and its over in 5 hours..(this works well with younger kids)
2006-12-25 11:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem and i no how u feel but the sultion is that try to ignore it or else it gets worser and worser and if u already tried that than try to act like her trust me it will work!
2006-12-25 12:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by Zahera♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the way you feel.
2006-12-25 11:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by George K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i answered on the other one. i hope you find a way to get rid of her lol good luck
2006-12-25 11:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by ... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a butler or a maid tell her or let her down easy
2006-12-25 11:03:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋