im the worst wife in the world he doesnt deseve a wife like me, more like a husband beater
2006-12-25 10:54:16 · 23 answers · asked by trina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need more help than a bunch of strangers on the internet. good that you recognize it. That's the first step. Talk to your doctor about it and see what he recommends. go see a therapists that specialized in this sort of thing.You are a husband beater. Now go get some serious help to stop it. Both of you deserve a chance. good luck sistah.
2006-12-25 10:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He must have did something to spark that anger in you right? You just won't come out and say in the a public forum. I have taken a recovery program called healing the wounded heart. It sounds like he did something to get you angry, in attitudes and behaviours nobody gets mad over nothing. The truth and reality is nobody gets mad over nothing, it has to be something.
Go for Counselling, you can only change yourself and not blame yourself for his behaviour. I went through lots of mental abuse with my ex-husband and he had behind the scenes affairs.
2006-12-25 19:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. I was verbally abusive towards my husband and he was physically abusive. Neither of us wanted to divorce but we couldn't go on like that so we decided to go to counseling. It's been a long road but it's worth it. Things aren't 100% perfect but they have definetly improved. Try researching marriage counseling.
2006-12-25 19:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it and still do it theres got to be a reason were you abused? If so get help right away. If not take a break from him,see if your relationship is worth the stress. Love Shouldn't Hurt.
2006-12-25 19:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bonita722 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realizing that this is not right was your first step to improvement. The next step is to ask yourself why you treat him like this. It may be because you are not happy in your marriage or it could be that you are just a bully. Either way it is up to you to change the cituation now. Good Luck.
2006-12-25 19:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask for his forgiveness , he is still with u , he loves u other wise he would have left along time ago . try to be more Patience with him ...no guy will take that from some one unless he truly cares for u and wants it to work ..control Ur anger learn to let things go , coz now Ur feeling so bad about what u did so u love him also ...take a deep breath when u fight with him use wise and gentle words to express Ur self .. not Ur hands and u'll be OK and try getting some help
2006-12-25 19:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u do it? if you want to stop and be a good wife instead of hitting him talk to him or im only 14 but u r older so work it out in the bed
2006-12-25 19:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by Makayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not beat yourself over this. Maybe you all can attend some type of counseling. If he is sticking around then he has to love you dearly. Just try and be a little more nice to him especially if you really do love him.
2006-12-25 19:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be very thankful he is still there, u can change yourself, and your weight problem, anything is possible. if he deserves better than be that wife that he deserves, u know theres a problem, u feel guilty about how u treat him, so there should be no problem making changes, there would only be a problem if u didn't know or weren't willing to acknowledge it. maybe you don't like yourself and that is causing the problems.
2006-12-25 19:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go seek out some help--Talk to a counselor and get into therapy for yourself and marital counseling with your husband--The first step is always admitting you have a problem--that takes courage--Now take some action for yourself and for your marriage...
Good Luck:)
2006-12-25 19:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by Shay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋