CONFUSED!!!!!!!?

Question

OK I HAVE A BF 4 4 MONTHS ON NEW YEAR EVE, AND HES GOING TO ILLINOIS FOR ??? HOW LONG, AND MY FRIENDS TELL ME TO BREAK UP WITH HIM BUT I LIKE HIM SO MUCH ITSLIKE LOVE BUT IDK, AND WERE RLY SHY, AND I WANNA TLK TO HIM BUT LIKE I SAID IM SHY, AND WE HANG OUT EVERY WEEKEND, BUT HE NEVER ASKS ME TO HANG OUT , AND EVERYTIME IN THE HALL WAY WE SAY HI TO EACH OTHER, AND WE HUGGED BUT EVER KISSED, AND WERE GOING TO WINTER BALL WITH ECH OTEHR BUT THE WAY HE ASKED WAS A LIL SNOTTY NO OFFENSE, WE PLYED TRUTH OR DARE N ONE OF MY FRIENDS ASKED ME N SAID TRUTH AND THEY ASKED IF IM GOING TO WINTER BALL I SAID YES N I LOOKED AT MY BF, AND THEY SAID DID HE ASK U N I SAID NO N THEY HE SAID DO U WANNA GO, N I SAID SURE, AND THEN WHEN HIS HANDS WERE COLD I OFFERED MY GLOVES N MY HAND BUT HE SAID NO NAD WHEN MY FRIEND (GUY) SAID DO U LIKE UR GF WHICH IS A MAN (JK THO) THEN ?? SAID IS UR GF A MAN OR WOMEN, AND H SAID MAN AND THEN IDK DOES HE THINK IM A DUDE , SOO PLEASE HELP ME, AND MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Answer 1

If you and your boyfriend are in high school then he probably is embarrased to be affectionate with you in front of his friends. Don't take it personally guys at that age just act that way. As for New Year's - don't break up with him just play a little hard to get. Tell him how much fun you are planning on having with your friends that night and see if he gets a little jealous. If he calls u a lot from Illinois to see what u are up to then he is in to you. Don't stress!

Answer 2

Well, I'll tell ya what. After reading that, I've come up with something that may help. Since Santa has come and gone, getting a clue for Christmas is out of the question. So here's the next best thing. It involves a little alone time so prepare yourself. First you'll need a CD player. Next, any Backstreet Boys album, (I would suggest A Very Backstreet Christmas). Next a few of your moms razor blades. Have fun.

Answer 3

My sympathy for your confusion. It's hard being shy when it seems all the people you know are all so outgoing and what-not. If your boyfriend doesn't have the ability to realize that your a young woman and that you have feelings just like everyone else on the planet, then maybe you should find someone with more functioning brain cells. A good heart wouldn't hurt either!

Answer 4

First of all, Merry Christmas to you also. Secondly to answer your question, maybe you should just think about how much are you willing to endure with him leaving you. You aren't even sure how long he will be gone. Maybe you should just try and hold on to the realationship to see what happens. Love conquers all so maybe you all will have a chance to survive through the distance.

Answer 5

I didn't quite understand what you were saying. But I think I got the main point. Don't break up with him, yet. Wait until you see another guy and another option comes up. He might break up with you though. So be prepared. Sounds like he feels uncomfortable around you.

Answer 6

Relationships are all about trust so sadly enough you have to use your own judgement. And the best thing i can think to tell you is take the advise of your closest friends or your parents.

Answer 7

Lose the caps. Ask a question instead of doing a ramble. Spell check would be nice. Think back to your English composition class on how to construct a sentence, and please do so.

Answer 8

wow, very disturbing
this makes no sense
why would you even consider going out with this kid
if you have the whole world to chose from ( you are obv good looking, your avatar is sexy) why would you chose this kid
don't cut youself short


........unless you get great sex

Answer 9

Gurl I have the same problem.Just try your best to tell him how you feel.And telll him thst you don't really like the way he treats you.

Answer 10

Oh gee, your writing is so bad, to me it's unreadable. If I were you, I'd forget about the opposite sex and concentrate on academics.