why are men so unfaithful? and what can be done about it?

Question

it seems as if unfaithfulness is increasing. what can be done to ensure your partner won't be unfaithful and won't leave you for someone else?

Answer 1

Men are unfaithful because their women are not providing them with what they want and need. Women are delusional when they think it's all the men's fault. I have found that men who cheat are not happy at home. If they were happy at home, why would they go elsewhere?

So, next time ladies, think twice before you turn your hubby down for sex because the next time, he might not ask you. The next time your hubby asks you to cook dinner for you, before you turn him down, think twice because he will go outside to eat if he has to.

It's just as much the women's fault as it is the men's. Take a good look at yourself and how you've been treating your man before you blame him. A man doesn't eat out when he's getting fed at home.

Answer 2

To start with you need to look at the person you are getting into the relationship with.What is their character.Are they honest and reliable or are they prone to lying.Ask about prior relationships how did they end.Did they cheat on any of their partners.The men today are so unfaithful because they aren't being raised right anymore.They are lazy,inconsiderate,selfish,and basically just overgrown little boys.They do the dirt they do because they are let get away with it.Has for insurance they won't leave their is no such thing.You can has I said look at the person before getting involved but.That doesn't mean they definitely won't leave or cheat.They have to want to be faithful to you.You can't make them.In some instances you might be able to scare them into it.Like if your partner is the skid dish type you can reinforce the fear of the possibility of getting an disease.Or making sure they understand that there is no going back if they ever cross that line with another woman they had better be sure they never want you again because you wouldn't allow them back into your life if they ever cheated.But I think most of all it is the mans strength in character that is the best way of having a chance they won't cheat.

Answer 3

Why are you only putting men in that catagory. Because women are just as guilty as men are of being unfaithful.

What can be done to ensure that partners won't be unfaithful?

1. If more husbands and wives put their partner and their partner's feelings and needs before their own, their relationship would be alot stronger.

2. If spouses concentrated more on complimenting their partner and affirming them and telling them what they appriciate about them. That would help too.

3. Learn conflict resolution to where couples when they are working at resolving conflict can talk it out rather than yelling and fighting. (My wife and I have learned it and it works!)

4. Compliment each other. I tell my wife every day that she's pretty or that I think her hair looks pretty, or what she's wearing looks pretty.

Just those few things will help alot.

But please, don't lump men in the catgory alone when there are women out there who unfaithful as well.

Answer 4

"it leaves you, baby, if you don't care for it"

I don't believe for a minute that 1.infidelity is either increasing or decreasing, or that 2.women aren't just as bad as men when it comes to infidelity.

When one partner is cheating, both partners need to look at themselves and reevaluate their relationship. What are his needs? Are they being met? Is the cheater at a dead end in the relationship after years and years of working so hard to be happy? Or is he simply a heartless bastard who wants to screw around on you for no reason at all? I'd imagine that most of the time, it's the former.

What can be done? Well, first, more can ALWAYS be done in a relationship to ensure open communication and happiness in the home life. Both partners need to be understanding of the other person's intimate needs, emotional needs, et cetera. There's almost never NO reason.

And most of all, "men being unfaithful" is such a blanket statement. Each situation is different. If your partner is cheating on you, you need to choose to not take it and leave him, OR examine why he did it and try to work it out so he doesn't feel he needs to stray to get what he needs from a relationship.

Answer 5

It's a two way street because women are just as unfaithful as men are, and if anything that side of the trend is growing.

The only thing you can really do is not to take your partner for granted. Do things, go somewhere nice on vacation, give him sex....if anything, spice it up by doing something HOT! Be his friend first and foremost. If he still doesn't "get it", then his interests have probably weaned off. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you.....he just has to take care of things for himself.

In this day and age, monogamy is difficult. Not impossible...just diificult.

Answer 6

If the men decides to be unfaithful, whatever u do won't matter. Even if u have been putting him up on a pedestal and trying your best to please him, it seriously won't matter. Y? Because had he appreciated it, would he have even cheated u in the first place?

My take on this is- be INDEPENDENT. Remember that nobody else can make u happy but yourself... do not allow your happiness to be dictated by others. You can't control what others want to do but you CAN control how you want to respond to the situation.

Always have a plan B. When u always rely on yourself, u won't fall hard when someone disppoints u. Good luck.

Answer 7

not all men are unfaithful that's a loaded question if men are unfaithful then women must be too because you can't be unfaithful by yourself.i think part of the problems with today we live in a disposable age and we as a society have taken it too far.

Answer 8

Men are unfaithful,and what you can do about it is leave them,cause nine times out of ten they will not change...There is some men that are faithful but a lot aren,t and trust me if hes not faithful now he never will be,you will always be looking over your shoulder at him>life is too short to be worrying all the time about his next fling....If you love him,I would leave anyway.I left mine and it took me a couple of years to get over it because i loved him too,but trust Me you can forget him,I did and find someone that will be faithful.

Answer 9

that is never something you can guarantee but, if there were less women having affairs with "taken" men and less women willing to have one night stands that would sure help. Its not just the mans fault. Also, there are plenty of women who also cheat. You will never have a true answer to this ? but, everyone wishes there was a simple solution

Answer 10

find you a mate who is a christian.......one can't walk in Spirit and Truth and be a cheat and liar. One who fears God will not live as such and get away with it.
True christians have been known to commit adultry but, not the ones who flirt and plant seeds of adultry. Pray before you do anything and God will lead you to the right choice. We look at the outside but, God knows the heart.