im visiting home for december (cause i live in a different country) and im only staying for aroudn 2-3 weeks. my cousin wants to sleepover EVERY SINGLE DAY! i mean i enjoy hanging out with her and stuff, i wouldnt mind her sleeping over every once in a while, just not EVERY DAY!! what do i do? i dont wanna TELL her not to sleepover because i dont wanna hurt her feelings. her mom told me to tell her whenever the kid gets annoying so that she could forbid her from sleepingover, but i dont wanna tell her that her kid is annoying....
PLEASE HELP!
2006-12-25 10:28:49 · 6 answers · asked by sofia 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
just tell her you have plans.. OR have another friend over.. and tell them her you'd only like one guest at a time please.. OR tell her you're sick.. I mean she'll never find out the truth if she's not there right?
2006-12-25 10:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by 9*I ♥ Kasey Kahne*9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever she is over just lay around or pretend your asleep or actually do try and sleep. When you are awake though, if she suggests you to do/play something say you dont want to, and jsut dont speak to her much and whenever she asks you something just reply with a yes or no or shrug, she'll soon get bored of you and wont want to stay over as much. If she asks you why you have been acting like this lately just say you dont feel well or something.
If you still want her to like a lot like she does right now then just politely try and tell her you need some time alone, she will understand. If she gets upset by it, the next day tell her that you are sorry and you only said that because you werent feeling well and needed time alone and that was the first thing that came to your mind so you said that.
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2006-12-25 19:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by ... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her that you two will get sick of eachother if you hang out everyday and you'll end up hurting eachother. I know where youre coming from. We had a family reunion once and me and the other 7 grandchildren had to share a house along with the 3 sets of parents and 1 grandmother. Yea. And my cousin's husband. And my cousin's boyfriend. After 2 days, we all were ready to kill eachother xDD literally. Alyssa was like "OMG AMBER I AM GOING TO THROW YOUR CD PLAYER OFF THE STAIRS! I WILL!"
2006-12-25 18:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Karen Smith 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can very politely tell her that every once in a while u can sleep over but u would like time to spend with your immediate family for a change if she is a understanding person u wont hurt her feelings dont worry sooo much about it im sure she will understand so Good Luck
2006-12-25 18:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by shabo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to stay busy, or maybe you should just act like the most boring person in the world, that may keep her away.
2006-12-25 18:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by TEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you have plans for the night with your family or (wink wink) boyfriend.
2006-12-25 18:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by thats her. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋