i reall like him and he knows it. he flirts w/ me ALL THE TIME! the only problem.... he has a girlfriend. he doesn't wana break her heart by breaking up w/ her but he's breaking mine by not. I mean he calls me more than his girlfriend and i reall like him. i can't stop thinking bout him. what should i do?
2006-12-25 09:47:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok every1 is making out like he's a player or something. but he's not. he's really sweet ok? so no he's not a player.
2006-12-25 10:08:51 · update #1
Ask him if he thinks anything will happen between you two... that way you know if your wasting your time on this one guy... yeah you may really like him and its gonna hurt if he says no but its still gonna hurt if he says yeah but does nothing about it... or just point out all the things that you are telling us... y'all talk more than him and his girlfriend and he flirts with you, which is like leading you on.... and its not right for him to do that to you or his girlfriend... but that's what i would do even if it meant hurting myself.. just another thing to help make me stronger.
2006-12-25 09:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by URKA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do if he doesn't want to break it off with his gf to be with you. Leave it at that. All there can be is "friendship"; I know this must be hard but the more you talk to him the harder it'll be to resist him and this action says a lot. You can however, confront the gf for him that the two of you are sort of seeing each other, and that will get something started, and hopefully it will be the two of you together at last.
2006-12-25 14:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to "take the bull by the horns" and break up with her IF that's what he really wants to do. And, personally I don't think that's what he wants to do. He likes having his cake and eating it too. He has you to fulfill certain needs and her to fulfill certain needs. Too bad he can have only one of you. He can only have one of you, right? Best thing you can do is start backing off from him...he'll end up wanting more from you. But, I can tell you he'll keep her on the side in secret. Sorry, I've seen it before. Good Luck.
2006-12-25 09:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
competition. so step ur game up but thats kinda wrong because he has a gf but he has to make a choice girl to tell u the truth he might b playing u cuz if he really likes u it wouldn't matter if he broke her heart because he would want 2 b in ur heart.
2006-12-25 09:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that he cares about her more than you! tell him how u feel and tell him that he should break up with her dont take no for an answer if u really wanna b with him
2006-12-25 09:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him to come over some evening and talk it all over. you should tell him exactly what you feel. give him a little more time. pray
2006-12-25 10:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start treating him like you would if he was your bf..if he likes you he will leave his chick for you..if your lucky
2006-12-25 09:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by The Prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
time is priceless
2006-12-25 09:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋