when your spouse cheats on you with a same-sex person or with an opposite-sex person?
2006-12-25 09:33:13 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well for me it would be Same-sex person cause that means he is gay.. Opposite sex would bother me cause that would mean i wasn't doin my JOB..
2006-12-25 09:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by pruittsgurl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Both hurt I am sure but I would think it would hurt worse if it was the opposite sex. B/c then it would seem as though you weren't good enough sexy enough are just didn't love you enough..
If it is the same sex as him, then yes it would hurt but you could look at it as you are his favorite female, your are the one he chose while trying to hide his sexuality. You are probably his best friend. It has to be hard staying in the closet and trying to change how you feel inside. You gave him happiness, you helped him with this so much that he wanted to be with you..Then when he felt he had to be true to his self and follow his feelings yes it hurt you I am sure, but I cant imagine hiding something like that, living life as a different person. So I guess it wouldn't hurt as bad b/c I could see why it happened.
2006-12-25 17:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by jennalicious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when your spouse cheats on you with an opposite sex person
2006-12-25 17:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by samanthe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel that cheating is cheating; regardless of who they were with the hurt would be the same. I think that for a heterosexual couple it would be more shocking than more hurtful to discover your partner is doing something you never expected them to be capable of doing. But I dont have experience with this, its just my opinion.
2006-12-25 17:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by ruffdawg73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same sex person is easier ...coz if it was opposite i can understand i don't have what the other guy has ... but cheating is cheating no mercy
2006-12-25 18:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt less with the opposite sex partner....but I do think my ex likes the same sex partners....caught him going to website about guys who dress up like girls_
2006-12-25 17:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is likened to the one you truly love taking a hot branding iron and applying it to your heart; I am talking about your emotional heart. It doesn't matter with whom, it never matters with whom.
2006-12-25 17:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposite sex......she could be living out a fantasy with a female....Another man is a real threat....!
2006-12-25 17:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by cesare214 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't matter.
A toe is a toe. Both hurt like hell, and take alot of strength and courage to over come.
2006-12-25 17:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Betrayal is betrayal. Doesn't matter who the other person is, because the one hurting u is the one u care about.
2006-12-25 19:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by blackanubis9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same-sex for sure hurts more
2006-12-25 19:04:15 · answer #11 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋