i have been going out with my gf for 6 months and we're gonna tell my parents together i just don't know how i'm 15 and she's 18 and if things don't work out and my parents don't approve i'm just going to move in with her i'm scared but i love her to much to hide her my parents are ministers so i don't think they respect the choice for me to be with a girl i'm scared of what they will say. i know they'll still love me, but my talks about gay people all the time she doesn't realized who i am.
2006-12-25 09:29:59 · 11 answers · asked by headbanger 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Talking with your parents is always the greatest idea. I know- I have a 16 year old son and I would totally still love him and support him no matter what. His happiness is all that counts for me. BUT be prepared- your girlfriend is over 18 and u r under and it could still be considered statutory rape. Thats when 2 people have a sexual relationship and one is under 18 and one over and the parents can have her put in jail so tread carefully on how u tell them. Tell them u havent had sex - that its just all about the love in your hearts otherwise your girlfriend can totally get locked up for it! Always be honest with yourself and your loved ones about who u r and what u feel. If they r good and trusting parents they will be there for u. I do think u should wait on the moving in together thing though. Finish school- get an education- then go for it after that. Them being ministers things might be a little harder for u but Im sure they will always love u no matter what. Give them time to absorb the info u give them. Good luck to u and Merry ChristmaS
2006-12-25 13:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of 15, there seems to be a lack of judgement when it comes to prioriies---hear me out. You have a dilemma that is not too far off from any other young teen. Socially you should be dating to learn all about the different people out there--you decided on one already? How could you possibly know what love is---it is more than just a word. You have no idea of the emotions involved with love. It is more than whatever you seem to feel now. You should be lightly dating, after a week of working hard studying in school---maybe a parttime job, too. That is what teenyears are made of. Do you really have the guts to tell me you can support a baby if you have one? And you will have one because you don't have any idea about the act and intentions of sex. You better snap out of it and cool your tool---sounds like you just want to get away from your parents and you'll use anything to do it. Go do some homework and be a nice normal kid---you will thank yourself for getting back on track--you have lots of years to find a true love---and you will enjoy the entire journey---now you will feel tied down within a month---whining about being unhappy---get a grip and be 15
2006-12-25 20:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Depending where you're at, if you move in with her, then your parents can just get the police to remove you from there, by force if necessary, and bring you home. Also, she could be put in jail for being a pedophile.....you are underage. That charge will follow her for life. So if you are both smart, you'll chill things out until you're 18.
2006-12-25 17:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your parents don't approve and you say you love this girl then you'll do the right thing and be with her even if it means upsetting your parents or the holy church or whatever. I'm not big on going to Church and i believe that everyone should be themselves weather they are gay or straight. You shouldn't have to hide your sexuality be proud and be gay. lol
2006-12-25 18:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by meshaangel2004 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O WOW !! That's a hard 1 !!! My brother is a Pilgrim Holiness pastor, and has a 10 yr old daughter.......... He would freakin' flip ! You do understand, you are a minor........ They can and probably will put you in boot-camp.....Or something similar to it.. You can NOT legally make a decision to move out...... Your under their care til 18 years of age...... You better think about it before you need a big glass of water to wash that foot down....
2006-12-25 17:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one you love her and you dont want to upset your parents either. Tell them and take it from there, dont over think it or you'll just panic...be calm and be honest, all will work out
2006-12-25 18:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should wait until you're of age because you're still a minor.
2006-12-26 21:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully your parents won't have her arrested when you tell them.
2006-12-25 20:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait what the heck are you a girl or boy or are u a lesbian
2006-12-25 20:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what? i dont understand the question
2006-12-25 18:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋