My husband has a really bad temper and has ackowlegde that .He has agreed to see THERAPIST . I plan to go with him eventuallty to do marriage or couples counsling .What can i expect ?
2006-12-25 09:20:14 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Alot of communicating with each other. Ssaying what you and him like and not like about each other. ANd if your husband has a bad temper well they will ask you how you feel about it. But with his temper don't be surprised if your husband doesn't get mad and walk out in the first session. But if he really wants to change he will try hard. But in the session they will ask you all kinds of questions and you will ahve to answer them so the shirk can find out what's going on so Expect the unexpected and lots of talking.
2006-12-25 09:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for your husband to acknowledge such a hard thing. You can expect the therapist to ask you different questions regarding your husband's problem. The therapist may even give you some tips on how to deal with him when he gets angry.
Acknowledgement is the first step in stopping the cycle.
Good Luck.
2006-12-25 17:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by girlcop1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't exspect anything right now. Just provide emotional support and encouragement for the time being. Wait a few months before you look for change. He didn't just develope a temper, it's been in the making all his life, if not something his own father or mother had/has as well.
2006-12-25 17:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to see therapist is good thing but don't expect anything...because
it's take too long..and frankly u don't need to go for marriage counsellor or couple counseling for his bad temper problem...he is the one who have problem why do u have to get lecture from the counsellor............
2006-12-25 17:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by peace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of hell!! A lot of tears!! A lot of heart ache!! A LOT!!! Be ready for anything! If you both really want things to work out in the end everything will be fine..But you both will think of yourselves in a whole different light once all this is done.
2006-12-25 17:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by jennalicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you know that he had a temp before you marry him? He should have worked on that before the marriage this way you could have bail if you want to it case it didn't work out for him. (seeking help that is) anyway good luck!
2006-12-25 17:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by pdse52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
⥠â¥someone who is smarter than we give them credit for, who is there for you so be honest no matter how much it hurts! that is the only way it will get better ⥠â¥
2006-12-25 17:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
expectations are premeditated resentments.
It will only work as well as the effort he puts in to it.
2006-12-25 17:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by hogie0101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a slow process and lots of patience
2006-12-25 17:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by amal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly dont' know, but it's good that he's willing to get help, good luck
2006-12-25 17:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋