i liked this girl since a year ago but when we went back to school in the summer she hasn't talked to me. One of my friends told me that she hated me but i don't exactly know what i did or how. I really like this girl and i don't care if she doesn't care about me i just want her acceptance and i want to talk to her. We are both 15 yrs. old
2006-12-25 09:02:31 · 11 answers · asked by xxllx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well one i already asked her if i did something and she told that she had no comment and i can tell she was nervous by the way she talked. And no i cannot move on i really want to know whats bothering her.
2006-12-25 09:47:27 · update #1
listen i won't give up on this girl and i lot of these are really good comments but does a girl get mad when a guy likes but can't the time or the words to talk to her because he is extremely shy.
2006-12-25 10:11:39 · update #2
To your question can she get mad because your shy and have trouble talking to her the answer is yes. She probably felt like you didn't really like her. Ask one of her friends why she's mad at you. If they won't tell you then confront her again, not infront of a lot of people, ask her and if she won't tell you tell her you're not going to stop bugging her and you're going to keep asking until she tell you truthfully why she's upset with you. Chances are it's because somebody who was jealous probably told her some lie to get her to be mad at you. Trust me. Ive had it happen to me and i did pretty much the same thing. One of my old friends told me he was cheating on me and i believed her. I broke up with him and the next day she tried to get all cuddled up with him and all but he totally dismissed her and she lied to me so she could have him to herself but she got bitchslapped when he didn't want her. Seriously, keep trying! Don't give up! Chances are she really like you otherwise she wouldn't have gotten mad at whatever you did or said. Life lesson: Don't ever give up on love. Keep trying. Good luck.
2006-12-25 11:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Turn off the emo.
2. Buy some chocolate (or any other appropriate candy of her liking) OR
3. Give her money/puppy/kitty
4. Enclose a note asking why she is mad at you
5. Demand her respect and acceptance
6. Wait 1-5 days
7. If no response, IGNORE HER!!!!
2006-12-25 09:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody might have told her something about you that made her not want anything to do with you. I think you should try saying hi to her in the hallways or something, but don't try to go up to her and ask her why she hates you. That might make her hate you even more. I would try talking to her, friend to friend, just about stuff. Try hinting to her that you still like her, but don't ask her out yet. I wish the the best! Good luck.
2006-12-25 09:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a girl, so I should know about this. Are you sure you didn't do anything in the past to make her mad or offend her? Just double check and make sure. If you can't remember anything, then sit her down and talk to her. Don't be mean or forceful, just be sweet and apologize if you did anything to offend her or make her mad. Good luck!!
2006-12-25 09:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Linn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hates you the best thing for you is leave her alone completely. If not and she is the spiteful kind you can get yourself in a world of hurt real fast by pushing the issue with her. This is one of those cases where it is because to walk away and forget about it..
2006-12-25 09:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her about it. bring flowers with u when u r going 2 talk 2 her girls like flowers and chocolate. tell her u were not aware of the situation until now
2006-12-25 09:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by samanthe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do everything you can to get her to forgive you.for whatever.
girls are like that and sometimes they just wanna see what are you going to do. so whatever you do do something really nice and that you think she will like.
do a bunch of things.
you wont regret
2006-12-25 09:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Loving 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what did U exactly did rong, girls h8 it when the guy blames it on the girl, and ask her if u guys can b like u used to b
2006-12-25 09:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by sy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could maybe surprise her, buy her flowers and maybe a teddybear and go to her house today, when it´s christmas and give it to her. maybe she would feel how you care about her.
2006-12-25 09:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and ask her what the hell you did wrong.
2006-12-25 09:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by sikchux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋