i very much like a guy and have had various dreams about him. i dreamt that we were out drinking in a pub and he kept going off, turns out he was flitting between me and another girl. i got upset when i tweeked was happening and ran off to the loo leaving my jacket with him. whilst in the loo the pub was evacuated due to fire when outside i saw him out there with another girl and he had left all my things in the pub.
in reality he wont commit to me i always think its cos he has someone else. could this be what the dream is telling me or is it telling me something else?
I would appreciate hearing all genuine interpretations.
Thanks.
2006-12-25 08:56:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
You are with a guy who won't commit (the flitting back and forth, although this does not mean in reality that this guy is seeing someone else). The leaving of your jacket, the fire, the evacuations are all similiations of hurdles. You keep trying to get this guy to commit and he will not and it has always been one hurdle after another.
I do not think he is seeing someone else BUT guys hate it when girls try to force their (his) feelings and make them (him) commit. Back off, be nice and natural. You may find that he will come around in time. If you really like the guy - give him some breathing room and this will make him like you even more. Don't pressure him. Good luck!
2006-12-25 12:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Orion777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a serious trust issue with him. This is your subconscious telling you that you have real issues with him and it is probably time to let go, and you feel he will not take care of you (him leaving your things in the pub). I personally listen to my "inner voice" and take my own advise, I think you possibly should do the same. The right one is out there for you, just keep looking.
2006-12-25 09:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should pay much attention to these kind of dreams. I personally experienced them every time when I have a crush on someone. These dreams are caused by your likeing for that person. When you like someone, you constantly think about him, which can alter your state of mind, as well as the hormones in your brain.
So if your body is altered (hormones, chemcials), it would be highly like for such things to happen in your dream.
I still remembered those sweet dreams. They made me happy. But I don't like my crush now and nothing in the dream really happen between me and him. So don't let those dreams confuse you. But enjoy them as dreams, and dreams only.
*Notice I didn't use the word love because if he is not committing to you, he is not worthy for your precious love.
2006-12-25 09:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by LifeisGoood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams have been feed and nurtured by what you already believe. Your conscious feelings are controlling what you dream.
Sometimes dreams solve problems ... not this time. They're just telling you what you already know. Don't give him anything that you're not prepared to loose.
2006-12-25 09:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be your own insecurities leaking out. You're worried and wondering if he's been creeping so its normal that you would dream about it; especially if its something that's been buggin you for awhile. It doesn't necessarily mean anything, but if you're that unsure about it you should talk to him. Just make sure you don't do anything to drastic.
2006-12-25 09:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Luxurious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust him. You are telling yourself just how little trust you actually have in him. Without even a small amount of trust to build upon, a happy relationship with him is not possible. Move on. If he really truly wants only you, he will prove this to you and the trust can begin to grow.
2006-12-25 09:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i will. you're given a decision. disgrace you forgot the 2d description. the adult men ought to be adult men yet I doubt it. i think of they stand for something which will 'connect' with you for a extreme 'relation'. think of artwork, preparation, new domicile. something long term like that. i don't be attentive to you sufficient, and the dream is to sketchy to tell greater.
2016-10-06 00:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams aren't any smarter than you are; they can't TELL you anything. However, it could be that your dreams are your own doubts about him. To me, dreams are pretty cool extensions of our own lives and thoughts, but nothing more. Isn't that enough?
2006-12-25 08:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are a heavy sleeper. o__O
Dreams don't always have to mean something.
Maybe you just want it to mean something.
Take a deep breath and breathe.
Relationships are a waste of time.
2006-12-25 08:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you were asleep, nothing more nothing less.
2006-12-25 08:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋