we dated on and off for 2 years. now the silent treatment with her dumping me via email before thanksgiving. I was never able to give her the time she needed (work). I have had time to reflect how foolish I have been and I am truly sorry. I want to tell her in person, but I have respected her wishes for time being. I sent her a small christmas gift and left her a short xmas phone message xmas eve. All I have received from her is a short "thank you, that was nice" for the gift email. I really would like another shot with her. I have also lost a ton of weight and feel like a new man since we last spent meaningful time together (4 months). 15more pounds and I'll be at my most fit and athletic self which she has never seen. A friend of mine, on his own, told her this but she does not seem to care. Is this thing dead, another man? I know she really really loved me and I can't believe she could shut it down so abruptly and not give me another shot. any hope? Thx. I want to change
2006-12-25 08:27:55 · 3 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dude, it's OVER! Give it up....move on - find someone else and someone better.....
2006-12-25 09:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving your EX a contemporary relies upon on the form you would be needing him to % out of you interior the destiny. Do you in basic terms thoroughly no longer choose for to be friends with him in any respect anymore? Do you nevertheless choose for to maintain a semblance of friendship with him? you're saying you haven't any longer have been given thoughts in any respect... so does that mean you do no longer even choose for to be his pal? in case you haven't any longer have been given any intentions to EVER be his pal... EVER, don't get him something. in case you think of he will throw it away, or no longer even discover any small sentimental cost out of your present, do no longer do something. What you adult adult males had is over and you adult adult males do no longer even choose for to paintings to maintain a friendship. IF on the different hand you go with for to stay friends along with your EX whether it somewhat is in basic terms so which you will sense greater delicate striking out along with your EX's brother, than slightly (and that i mean little or no) present does no longer be out of the question... yet determine that the cardboard that comes alongside with it has an extreme message of friendship and not in any respect hinting at something romantic.
2016-10-18 23:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's moved on!
you should too
2006-12-25 08:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋