Is that a tag line or what.......
He told me he loved me last night. I have been wanting to say it since day one.....I know woooooaaa horse!!! I am excited and a bit scared (of the unknown thats all). I wonder how many of you took enough time to be on your own,,,,find your independance,,,,then found love,,,,, after a break up-divorce. I wonder how your blended families are doing?? What about any of you that may have moved across country to begin a new life with someone you fell in love with????
Thoughts anyone?
2006-12-25 08:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mazoltov sweety! Finding someone worthwhile AND who likes kids from a previous relationship is getting to be really difficult these days. John Wayne said it best in an old black and white, "Getting someone new to lead your squad is like a marriage. No one is really sure how things are going to turn out until you REALLY get to know each other and work together for the things you really need and want." I moved across country myself once all by myself to find the aforementioned "self". Made quite a few friends and learned that love and an open AND honest line of communication are the best things in the world.
2006-12-25 08:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say since day one so this isn't your first date with him. But, you know you really need to let this relationship go a while because men are creatures you just can't judge. He may mean it and then again there are a lot of men on the first date will tell , "I'm falling in love with you or I love you ', I don't think anyone really falls in love with someone they just met. They might like you a lot but love on the first couple of dates I don't buy that line. Yeah I went through a bad marriage and then a divorce, but I have always worked since I got out of college and have always been real independent. I believe I would give it a little more time find out what kind of person he really is because you never know a man until you are around them a lot or live with them. Check him out a little farther.and see what happens.
Merry Christmas
2006-12-25 16:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do a background check and then go for it! Love at first site happens.....at least he told you know. I didn't' waste anytime after I got divorced....I mean I was busy, but I didn't' need time to gain my independence...I had that in my marriage...what I gained was the freedom to think without being ridiculed or ignored. I don't even want to think about blending families unless they are very little....most of the guys i am interested in either don't have kids yet...which I like 'cause I want more...or they are very little and they have custody...which is also cool with me.......I just need them to quite moving east!
2006-12-25 16:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
within 30 days of separation, i met someone. 1st marriage was very abusive & unhappy. spouse openly cheating. new relationship became exclusive almost immediately, however i did not actually commit right away for fear of making another mistake. my family & friends immediately accepted new person. her family immediately accepted me also. we both had a child from prior union, although not infants, but both are great. 5 years later all is perfect. good luck.
2006-12-25 18:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by mikeyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved to Canada from Missouri USA
2006-12-25 16:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by nbr660 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been divorced 5 years... no guy... got to know myself, my kids, and life in general... now that i am ready to date, there's just not any Decent single men... who knew? lol!!
2006-12-25 16:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-25 16:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋