embarresment!!!???

Question

today we had to get measured for dance... im bigger than the tiny twicks not tatlly fat.. they said my mesurments out loud and everyone laughed... im so embaressed... what do i do

Answer 1

Be glad you don't go down the drain like they do when taking a bath. Also, tell them that there's a direct correlation between body size and brain size. Be glad that you don't get blown down the street on a windy day like they do! (I'm referring, of course, to the idiots who laughed at you.)
Seriously though, body measurements are private. They shouldn't be yelling out the numbers like they did. I'm sure you dance a lot better than they do anyway.

Answer 2

Play it off, like it doesn't bother you (even if it does). It'll show that you were shocked too. it's too late now, because the situation has happened, but maybe when dance event happens bring it up around the people who laughed and say something like, "I guess I should have layed off the potato chips, huh?" You might get a laugh (good laugh) and you'll come out looking more confident. If they look at you like they don't know what you talking about, they've forgotten about the whole ordeal, and you can start recovering.

Answer 3

I used to be 40 pounds heavier than I am now. I'm 13 years old. I know what it's like to feel that way. In my dance class I'm one of the only girls with boobs and a woman's body (5'5 105 pounds). Sometimes I feel fat but if you dance with all you've got and if you are happy with yourself that is all that matters. Well good luck girl and Happy New Year!

Answer 4

well...the best thing you can do is forget about it, but if you really feel self conscience you can diet, but your best the way you are....if you can dance why not just do whatever you want! If they laughed it's their problem, and they lower themselves to that level that they laugh at you? that's absurd, you are so much better then them in that respect. Never forget that what makes you, is not only your personality, but your body, if you where as sick-like as them, then you would probably be completely different. Plus, if they are too skinny it's disgusting, if you have a little fat, it's not bad, plus at least your healthier then they are....

Answer 5

well, had a same prob, but not me.. my fren, she is malay dance n she is a little bit fat but not totally.. so.. when they measure her.. the teacher said her measurement out loud and told her that they didnt have a size for her. The rest of the girls laughed at her but she just said.. "at least my mom feeds me.. not lik urs, skinny.. " and walks off e stage without shedding a tear.. well, there's nothing to be embaressed of.. you gotta learn to accept yourself..

Answer 6

Dont worry im a dancer and have been dancing for 11 years. ive lived through this stuff! my teachers even called me fat but now they can take that back. just ask your dance teacher next time to silently say them so that u wont get embarrassed.

Answer 7

Just dance. Dance so much and work so hard that when you have auditions or a test or something, you beat them all. Then you'll be the one laughing.

Answer 8

Those people are just ignorant just don't bother. You should be who yo uare fat or skinny. You just have to be confident about yourself. Never pay attention to what others say about you. You can control your own life don't let others rule you!!

Answer 9

well we get measured in dance every year and these2 girls used to laugh at every1. then one year, another girl got tired of it and she started laughing when they got measured. they asked her why she was laughing and she said"because josh doesn't like skinny girls so you'll just have to get over him." (josh was in our hip-hop class which is where we were and every1 knew that the girl getting measured loved him). you just have to find their weakness.

Answer 10

laugh it off and say at least I'm a full grown woman and not a woman trapped in a child's body.