I love him so much and yet I know its best if I leave, but every time I try the more I dont do it and stay with him, Its like im trapped, the worst is I can not stop thinking about him I always find myself thinkinhg about him in everything I do. He loves me but He is obsessed with sex and honestly every other word is about sex and i dont like that i tried talking to him but it doesnt work i need advice on how to get away.
2006-12-25 07:48:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Time heals all wounds.
Think about other things, keep yourself busy.
2006-12-25 07:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u want 2 get over him go away 4 awhile with some girls and look at all the cute guys then talk 2 1 of them if u still r thinking about ______ then ask him y he only talks about sex ask him 2 stop b/c u dont need 2 let him pull u in if he is trying 2 get u in bed!!!! rember girls night out at a far away place where ther is cute nice matuer guys
im not sure if that helps but i hope it does
2006-12-25 15:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by ashley h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suggest you begin to think about what you need and want in your life and how well your guy does or does not meet those needs. Sorry you feel trapped. Try to remember that nothing in the definition of love includes doing or saying things your SO doesn't like or can't stand. That's called abuse.
2006-12-25 15:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him if he would consider going to consuling to help him understand why he so obsessed with sex-----tell him you really dont want to leave but if he doesnt try to find some help you have no other choice. Maybe it will work.
2006-12-25 15:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by nickle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight-forward. Are you sure you are not afraid of commitment? It sounds as if you really care about this person. You say you love him. He loves you. If he does love you he will accept your desire to talk about everything including sex. It sounds like perhaps you have reason to distrust because perhaps you have been taken advantage of sexually in previous relationships. It may be prudent to advance you relationship to a higher plain to see if he is the real thing. Trust yourself, and give him the benefit of doubt by confronting him with your fears and desires.
2006-12-25 16:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by professionalmuse4u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Counseling will help you to find your own inner strength, but I have to ask.....do you guys have other things in common, does he treat you well? When he looks in your eyes do see love and tenderness with the lust? 'cause let me tell you, I know a few women, my sisters actually, who thought their guy loved them and knew it wasn't about the sex because they didn't do it very often.......guess who wishes they got laid more now? Its fine to have a relationship that is about more than sex, but sex is important in a relationship......for some people its not important......for me it is HUGE....I feel worshipped when a man can't keep his hands off me......I like, they love my body and trust me, they love my mind, they go together......rather impossible to seperate! So if he is good to you in all the other ways, think about whether or not it is your fear that its only about sex that is causing you to see only that.....either way, a good counselor will help you figure it out and help you find the strength to leave or teach how to let go of your fear! Good luck and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-25 15:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The signs of needing to move on, is when there is an imbalance.
Have the courage to move on darling.
Surely your worth being happy? yet if you dont think so, then you won t let yourself be.
its your choice. do you want happiness or not.
2006-12-25 15:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by stuart_slider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that this is not working for you and more power to you for not being with a guy that will pressure you to have sex !
2006-12-25 15:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys are obsessed with sex. What's the problem? And what are your measurements?
2006-12-25 15:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by stryc9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, nobody is putting a gun to your head to stay with this loser. Don't you have any self-worth for yourself. He will NEVER change. Best for you cupcakes, to move on to a much nicer guy whom will forget you about this bloke.
2006-12-25 15:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋