If someone had spit in your face (like Terrell Owens did)...would you forgive him and "let him go"..or forgive

Question

and STILL BE FRIENDS...????which one would you do????

Answer 1

I do not know who Terrell Owens is therefor can not say anything about this.
But spitting on someone is considered a felony these days. Jail time.
My middle boy lost his cool with a teacher and spit his gum out at this teacher, my child is saying it did not hit him but this is not the point.
My son was in big time trouble and his electronics were taken away as well as kicked out of school. I reminded the school of this being against the law these days and told them I would again remind my child of spitting. I asked if legal action would be taken which it was not.
Very serious with the aids virus and other things out there now.
So would I forgive someone spitting at me, depends. If it got onto my skin and there was a chance of infection, since I have a compromised immune system this could be serious. If it got onto my clothing this would not be so serious. If this was a friend this would not be a friend any longer. I do not hang out with drunks and feel if someone is drunk this is not going to matter to these dangerous virus's out there.
So in closing if this got onto your skin go get checked out and I advice thinking your friendship over. If it got onto your clothing a doctor visit may not be in order but a valuation of the friendship I feel needs to be in order.

Answer 2

Only you or they know -- but whatever it is (long-standing grievances, buried hurts, minor irritations that are building into major problems because you or they aren't saying something that needs to be said), you'll feel a lot lighter once you stop carrying it around with you everywhere you go. Let it go. You'll be happier in the long run, and this attitude will give you more energy for the things that truly matter to you. Your happy disposition will lead you to an opportunity to increase goodwill throughout your life..

"you can't keep caring it around with you , if you do something now ! it will keep the battle going , The best place to answer your burning questions when it comes to inter peace, just might be your dreams. Meditation, yoga and tai chi help your subconscious channel the answer to your waking mind.

Answer 3

My family and I were discussing this while watching the game earlier tonight. My first reaction would be to knock him out in a split second as hard as I could, but, would not because I am bigger than that and also what would the consequences be for me if I did? Now, would it really be worth it? Screw him/her and kick this person out of your life and it would be this persons loss. It would not be worth it to lower yourself to his/her level and I would hang out with a better class of people. Friends, I would never be. If I had to work with this person I would avoid him/her and/or only listen and/or talk to him/her if absolutely necessary. That is a disgusting and a very low dirty thing to do to someone...

Answer 4

I'd give him a taste of his own medicine!
Right back at him.
What an idea!

Answer 5

I would not be his friend unless I can do something just as disgusting to him

Answer 6

i'd stab him in the face