I am wondering if anyone expericed a break down during Christmas when other have some good times. Since it was three months ex hubby of my friend left her, she would cry. She asked me why she feel like she was the only one who suffered the blues for christmas. everyone reminds her that they love her and that her life will be better in a start of 2007. I wish I could help her but.. She ain't over since Sept 11 after her 63 days of that damntation marriage.
How can I cheer her up by thinking good things.. not depression things
2006-12-25 07:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by Country Gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a good idea... but she still in her depression. I hope this work out...
2006-12-25 07:20:30 · update #1
Just pray that Gdo will help her deal with it and help her relize even if he was a good man there are many more out there .y'all should go to a spa one day and stuff like that and make it a girls day out the get all dressup and go out 2 eat.
2006-12-25 08:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mia Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her shopping and max out your credit card! I know that would make me fell better! I was depressed for a while after my ex left. But you need to be there for her, at this time of year people give up and just wont to die! They go to bed alone and wake up alone, this is my fourth year alone if it wasn't for work i would be home alone! So stay close to her tell her if she needs anything you are just a phone call away!
2006-12-25 16:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Breakups are never joyous and it's worst when most people around you are happy or it may seem like they are happy. WHAT CAN A FRIEND DO BUT JUST BE THERE. Words will go right in one ear and out the other so be of few words and do most of the listening. But be there for her.
2006-12-25 15:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by papa G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's been in a long depression and it continues, she should see her doctor about prescribing a med. What you can do is include her in your festivities and spend time with her shopping, movies, lunch, etc.
2006-12-25 15:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she needs professional assistance. Thus counseling and the appropriate medication to bring her back to life.
2006-12-25 15:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont the two of you go out and have a good time?
2006-12-25 15:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋