i find i prefer to chat about my problems with a female,,,is that normal for men?
2006-12-25 06:20:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's ok as long as you are not hiding anything from your wife and it's nothing more then regular chatting.
2006-12-25 06:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let's just say it is normal for those whose wives, girl friends, or significant other are not insecure and suspicious.
What may seem like an innocent chat which is nothing but that can become a source of trouble for those relationships that are shaky.
Chatting obviously doesn't mean anymore than what it is, unless you create an aura of suspicion when you suddenly stop in the middle of a chat when she walks in. Even if you are innocent, the circumstantial evidence suggests otherwise.
Just food for thought. Been there done that.
2006-12-25 06:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gnome 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but from personal experience I know that the "chatting" often will turn into something more. If you are having "problems with a female" you should talk about them with the female. That anonymous person at the other end of your computer conversation could be anybody telling you anything! There are a lot of hidden agendas out there...
2006-12-25 06:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this world, friends are hard to come by. It is impossible to sort them by gender. The only stipulation is that BOTH partners need to have the same options. Yes, it is very normal. I am female most of my friends are men. It has been this way most of my life. My husband knows and understands this, we both have never put restrictions on friendship.
2006-12-25 06:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Bonnie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it, as long as you make sure the line between friends and lovers is drawn.
Just a little advice.
Your girlfriend might accuse you of emotionally cheating, which can be even worse for her than sexual cheating.
You are opening up to another woman instead of her, that might make her feel very hurt.
2006-12-25 06:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
honestly the only female you should be chatting with is your wife. To talk to other woman about personal or fun things is direspectful to your wife also. before it goes to far and she asks you for a divorce you should start communicating with her.
2006-12-25 17:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What orks for you and your spouse. My wife talks to a few men but nothing unappropraite. I even talk with her online friends sometimes. Gues you can call them our friends. If you have nothing to hide then nothing is wrong. If you hide things then something is wrong.
2006-12-25 06:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok I guess...I am married and have an online male friend, we talk about our problems and we help each other out and we have helped each other's marriages to be stronger.
2006-12-25 06:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude' what's up. You know if you could get that girl online to meet with you. You wouldn't hesitate for 1 second to bang her. Your just milking out this whole thing of ""hey your my online female friend"" Hoping something does happen. This is your fantasy way of cheating on your wife. If this girl showed up at your door you'd let her get on her knees for you. Wuoldn;t you?? HA!!! Busted.. Give me 10 pts for telling it like it is.....You know I'm right. C'mon..
2006-12-25 06:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋