im freaking out i dont know if im pregnant or not?

Question

i've posted about this like twice but im still not getting pacific answers and im still freaking out , but about 4 days ago me and my bf were doing it , and we use spermicidel comdoms , and somehow the condom slipped off and was inside me , we didnt notice that it slipped off for about 2 or 3. he didnt *** all the way. he might of just pre-cumed barley. right away i washed myself with warm water and soap. im trying to not have kids right now , i think iam too young. and i know what your saying then dont have sex. but we want to have sex we just dont want that ever happening again. im freaking out i dont know what to do , the more i think about it the more my stomach hurts. i think its because im nervos. but i dont know. im about to do a test in a couple days. my last period ended around dec. 13-14. and periods usally change every month. and i dont want to wait too long. please give me advice

Answer 1

Hi Honey, here are some symptoms of pregnancy, check them and then see your doctor

Tender, swollen breasts
One of the early signs of pregnancy is sensitive, sore breasts caused by increasing levels of hormones. The soreness may feel like an exaggerated version of how your breasts feel before your period. Your discomfort should diminish significantly after the first trimester, as your body adjusts to the hormonal changes.

Fatigue
Feeling tired all of a sudden? No, make that exhausted. No one knows for sure what causes early pregnancy fatigue, but it's possible that rapidly increasing levels of the hormone progesterone are contributing to your sleepiness.

You should start to feel more energetic once you hit your second trimester, although fatigue usually returns late in pregnancy when you're carrying around a lot more weight and some of the common discomforts of pregnancy make it more difficult to get a good night's sleep

Nausea or vomiting
If you're like most women, morning sickness won't hit until about a month after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But some women do start to feel queasy a bit earlier. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting can be a problem morning, noon, or night.

About half of women with nausea feel complete relief by the beginning of the second trimester. For most others it takes another month or so for the queasiness to ease up.

Increased sensitivity to odors
If you're newly pregnant, it's not uncommon to feel repelled by the smell of a bologna sandwich or cup of coffee and for certain aromas to trigger your gag reflex. Though no one knows for sure, this may be a side effect of rapidly increasing amounts of estrogen in your system. You may also find that certain foods you used to enjoy are suddenly completely repulsive to you.

Abdominal bloating
Hormonal changes in early pregnancy may leave you feeling bloated, similar to the feeling some women have just before their period arrives. That's why your clothes may feel snugger than usual at the waistline, even early on when your uterus is still quite small.

Frequent urination
Shortly after you become pregnant, you may find yourself hurrying to the bathroom all the time. Why? Mostly because during pregnancy the amount of blood and other fluids in your body increases, which leads to extra fluid being processed by your kidneys and ending up in your bladder.

This symptom may start as early as six weeks into your first trimester and continue or worsen as your pregnancy progresses and your growing baby exerts more pressure on your bladder.

A missed period
If you're usually pretty regular and your period doesn't arrive on time, you'll probably take a pregnancy test long before you notice any of the above symptoms. But if you're not regular or you're not keeping track of your cycle, nausea and breast tenderness and extra trips to the bathroom may signal pregnancy before you realize you didn't get your period.

Your basal body temperature stays high
If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed elevated for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant

Good luck.

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Answer 2

Well, it's a little late now...But next time, there are pills you can get "the morning after pills". But you're supposed to take them within 72 hours. You can get them over the counter. It basically forces you to have your period again. However, you MAY want to think about taking it, and see if it WILL force your period or not.

Also, next time, no not wash, do not douche. Douching will only push the sperm in farther. You can really only wipe off what you can. Urinating afterwards can help a small amount.

Right now, the best thing for you to do is RELAX. Stress causes your period to come LATER. Seriously, just take it easy, and relax, enjoy the holidays. Don't think about it so much(hard to do, I know, but find something else to think about). There is no point in taking the tests yet. You will have to wait untilJanuary. Normal pregnacy tests you can buy in drugstores do NOT work UNTIL you are close to your period(within a few days). Wait at least another week before you test. Preferably, wait until it has been a month after your last period started, that way, you should be more or less correct.

Of course, another way is to go to your doctors.

This has happened to me before, and I went to get the morning after pill the next morning. There is now an over the counter stuff...."Plan B" if I remember correctly.

Answer 3

I would buy a pregnancy test, and if you're still nervous about it; If you're that nervous about it, I would highly suggest going to a PLanned Parenthood place if you're 18 or under. Everything there is completely confidential, you go by a confidentiality Number rather than your name. Also, everything is either free or half off...
If you had sex 4 days ago, then you should definitely go to Planned Parenthood for an Emergency Contraceptive. They say it only works within the first 3 days, but it's actually 5.
Anyways- good luck!

Answer 4

Ok washing after most likely pushed the sperm up farther up in there. Thats why they say don't doush or anything. using the spermicide condoms proboly killed off the sperm even if it slipped off. This may be a good warning ! If your not ready for babys then your not ready for sex . But since your going to do it anyway use this as an example of how to be more careful in the future ! Good luck !
If your still worried test in 2 weeks by then if your preggo it should show up on a test.

Answer 5

I'm sorry about your mom. it is very sad that your dad/ boyfriend willn't support you. the first thing you need to do is go to the dctr & get prenatal viatems & general check up. i had my son as 15. 0 support from my father or my babys father. i am now 17 & my son is such as blessing. he keeps me very busy. i will graduate from high school in june (a year early). i understand how you feel. i nvr ever considered abortion. however, open or closed adoption is an option. also if you choose to raise the baby thr is alot of help out there. WIC, food stamps, day care voluchers, medicad, etc. it is very diffiuclt however, you can raise this baby if that is what you want to do. try not to freak out. i understand that is nearly impossible;however, it doesn't help yur situation at all. GOOD LUCK! seek support from friends & maybe distant family members? if possible. stay positive. you can do this. make the best choice for you and your baby/

Answer 6

Look talk to your parents about birth control. Depo provera if you are not good with pills is good. The best thing to do is wait until your next period. There is a chance you could be pregnant, but I would not worry just yet. That you were using condoms is good, but sounds like it wasn't quite used properly. I am not going to try to be harsh, but pre-ejaculate can get you pregnant as well. If you cannot talk to your parents about birth control maybe you are not ready for sex. That is reality and not trying to be harsh. I hope this helps.

Answer 7

Wait until your period is supposed to come, then urine test. And schedule an appointment with your doctor for an IUD or birth control! If you are serious about not wanting kids, you need to be using more than just condoms. As you now know, they can come off, have holes, or tear. Please put more thought into this and get a secondary form of birth control or you are begging to be pregnant.

Answer 8

There is no point in taking a test until your period is late. The first late day you can do a test but before that you cannot trust a negative result. So you might as well relax and wait a few more weeks.

and yes its possible, its not possible to test this early.

Answer 9

You should call you physician or you local planned parenthood for the morning after pill, sometimes also know as Plan B.

I concur you should also be on something, ie depo, iud, the pill the patch etc

Answer 10

Tomorrow call for pregnancy councelling. Today, be loving and stop worrying. You can never get today back. Tell you family you love them and do something to show that. Don't think about yourself today. Try to help someone else.