Relations, expectations
2006-12-25 05:52:42 · 23 answers · asked by josh k 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
not wanting to spend much time with ur girl.
being cheap.
always making fun of her body even when its actually nice but it doesnt fit ur (bony) type
not being romantic and this doesn not mean only in bed.
when u dont face the problems and just not talk about it
being extremely jelous. jelousy is good coz it tells the girl that u care but dont over do it to the point that if ur girl sighs when she sees hugh jackman u hit her on the head. thats just retarted.
always telling her that shes so beautiful from the inside. u can say from the inside and out but dont ever say from the inside and stop, coz that will make her feel like shes not ur type but u like her anyway. oh and it especially sucks when she actually has many admirers so u need to becareful from that.
when u always point out all ur good qualities all the time. if shes with u, she knows ur good qualities.
not having a sense of humor. dont make jokes that she can tell u thought too long before saying them, and dont especially tell her oh i knew ud like this.
when u say i love or ur beautiful, dont always expect an answer coz a girl sometimes wants to enjoy hearing these things and not worry about how to be creatie with answer. she will tell u sweet things on her own. trust me.
dont talk to her about things u know well that dont interest her. like car engines. u have ur guy freinds for that.
dont be a baby. be a gentleman.
treat her like a princess. u dont have to spend a fortune, sometimes the smallest things that cost nothing can show her she means the world to u.
surprise her w/ a little unexpected gift every now and then. it will be very sweet because it will show her u were thinking of her even when u went shopping alone.
dont go crazy when she wants to spend time w/ her girl friends. in fact, u both should go out w/ ur freinds so u can miss each other.
oh boy i talk too much. well josh, i really wanted to help u. this is from a girl that is loved easily believe it or not and im not very picky but i like feeling like im with a man and not a kid. oh i almost forgot, never pressure a girl to sex or other things. let her start, especially with the big moves. u can start with the kiss tho and the little things that follow lol. also, never pressure a girl to say i love u. let her say it when shes ready but dont give her too long and keep her last relationship in mind coz it might determine the time she needs.
good luck being the perfect bf.
2006-12-25 07:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by exotic girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we will get disappointed by many things. for example:
if you aren't paying attention while we talk and then ask a question a few days later that we already answered
if you were serious w/ lots of other girls in the not so distant past, especially if some of the girls are still a part of your life
if you are a cheater(duh!)
if you don't show her on a regular basis that she is your everything
if you think more about yourself than you do about her
if you aren't ready for a commitment
if you spend more time w/ freinds than you do w/ her
those are the main things that would really dissapoint your main squeeze
2006-12-25 06:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by iANNA! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 08:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying - oh what a tangled web we weave when we first choose to deceive.
Cheating - I realize that its not only men that cheat... but you did ask.
Not Being In Tune - This means listening and also hearing what your partner is saying. A good example here - is if you guys and gals have to ask your partner what they wanted for Christmas - then maybe you are not in *tune* with who they are - what kind of person they are - what they are all about. This takes time, yes - but well worth the time in a good relationship.
2006-12-25 06:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most disapointing thing that I find in guys is that they can be shallow and full of themselves.
Good qualities in guys consist of humor, understanding, compassion, and thoughtfulness (in my opinion, you may think differently)
2006-12-25 06:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find one that lies. Lies hurt the most. Especially if the lies are for sex or affection. Do not lie. If you don't want to answer something personal, just change the subject. But do NOT lie to girls. Lies can break their hearts.
2006-12-25 06:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complete and total self absorption. Nothing is worse than getting into a relationship only to realize he only cares about himself!
2006-12-25 05:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by Angry Daisy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we believe they think and feel about things the same way we do.
We're disappointed when they don't put the same feeling or sensitivity into things that we do. That's when we learn that men and women really are different.
2006-12-25 05:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by BRENDA 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being *******. Not stepping up and being aggressive, and then making the women do all the work in the relationships.
2006-12-25 07:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Gen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad manners and always late for an appointment.
2006-12-25 05:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋