2006-12-25 04:38:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh she will, dont listen to that" ill never do that to you, im not like those others" Bull crap, she is too, use your head man, dont marry her that way your stuff stays your stuff when its over,a piece of paper shouldnt bind your lifeswork, if you love each other then whats going to happen, not a damn thing, you two will stay togethor and be happy,her gold digging girlfriends talk her into marriage, that way she can steal all of your stuff if it falls through,and trust me thatWILL happen, just look around you and ask your friends, its no mystery and if you really want to get married get a prenump, and if she wont sign, then that will show you her true intensions, she wants an insurance policy, and thats you, you getting drug to the cleaners, think man think its common senseif the shoe was on the other foot and she had a lot to lose im sure that you would sign, its out of love for each other not love for each others posessions thats the best answer that i believe that you will find anywhere good luck my friend
2006-12-25 04:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by waterboy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree that it is your choice. I also do not believe that marrying a girl from Indian versus Canada will provide any better chances for long-term successful marriage. If there is any statistic that backs up what your parents are saying, I would bet that it is based on where you are living presently, and not where you are from originally. If either girl ended up in Canada with you, wouldn't they become Canadian? The culture would be more of an influence than upbringing. Perhaps the only reason I might side with your parents is if you have a history of broken relationships with women/girls. Your parents may see a character flaw that we strangers do not. But if that's not the case, I side with you. That all being said, the only and *best* way to prove that your future marriage will not end in divorce is to simply live a great marriage. Live long, love and adore your wife all the while, and let the strength of your marriage be the testament of your success to your parents. Good luck, and happy courting.
2016-05-23 05:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking of divorce! That should be the last thing you are thinking about! Your not even married yet!
If you truly love her... you would want to share everthing with her!
You might consider how ready you are!
You could get a statement of your bank account just before your married to prove what was yours before the marriage and any property had before the marriage is considered your and she can't claim on that.
2006-12-25 04:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are even thinking of her that way, stealing from you, why are you going to marry her? If your possesions are that important to you stay single and sleep with them every night. But if she is willing to marry you which she probably has no idea what your thinking or she wouldn't, there is this thing called prenuptual agreement that is made up through your attorney thats states things like if the marriage ends before a certain time she gets none of it.Things like that but..... she has to agree and sign. Will she still want to marry you/
2006-12-25 05:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are thinking this way before the wedding., maybe you shouldn't be getting married. It sounds to me that you have already made it up in your head that the marriage will end in divorce, and that is no way to begin a marriage.
2006-12-25 04:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by Summer G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A prenup would take care of that but if you have kids together all bets are off and you won't even see1/2 of your property & $.
2006-12-25 04:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by chosen37 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think she could "steal" from you, you shouldn't marry her. If you each want to protect what is yours before a marriage, get a prenup.
2006-12-25 05:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're in love with your money and property more than this person; why marriage then? If you love someone, you will do anything for her; even risking your own life. You don't love her, you lust for her.
When you know for sure that you love someone, everything else doesn't matter. I don't think you are ready for it.
2006-12-25 04:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by childofGod 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is called a prenuptial agreement and it is actually designed to protect both parties and the assets they bring to the marriage.
There is a sample linked in the source...
2006-12-25 04:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Richard H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a prenupt or be careful and choose wisely before committing to marriage.
2006-12-25 04:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋