My parents, and brother, aunt, and husband are gone. I miss them very much and the holidays are not the same without them these days.
2006-12-25 04:19:09 · 11 answers · asked by pdse52 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I like to thank u for your understanding for those who know how I feel. When I said gone I meant passed away. Away I do have friends but sometime u don't want them u want your family. peace, love and happiness to everyone.
2006-12-25 08:39:23 · update #1
My family is in another state, and my husband is gone for the holidays. I know how you feel.
I am spending today with a friend. It's better than nothing.
2006-12-25 04:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being Happy with yourself. Happiness begins with you. If your not happy with yourself than you and never be happy. Sometimes we think or would like to think that most of our family is our close relatives or wife and husband, but sometimes your family can be the ones that we surround our selves with. That can consist of friends, co-worker, and neighbors. So don't be down during the holiday, be up lifted and happy. Cause truly if you miss someone then eventually they'll come back to you. And the best thing to do when you miss someone is to remember the happy times that you'll spent together!!!!! Happy Holidays!!!!
2006-12-25 12:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by dankekag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say gone what exactly do you mean b/c if they are away send emails or video messages if it is something more than that pray on it and give it to your higher power! I know there is nothing like being there for the holidays but think about it you can have them any other holiday or make arrangements to be there next holiday
2006-12-25 12:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself some really good friends. They'll invite you over and you can do the same. Have a holiday party and you'll feel better. You need to make your own life. They would have wanted you too. Don't you think?
2006-12-25 13:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy do I know how you feel!!!I feel so alone today,holidays always bring out the worst in me.I lost both of my sons and got divorced,and I have no other family.Too bad we can't go out and forget it all.But the truth is you can run and run from s---,but it always seems to find you.I guess humor helps get you through sometimes ,but the pain is always there.It does help to talk with people who understand.Most don't though .It's hard to know what it is like to be truly alone.My prayers aare with you.ALANNA
2006-12-25 12:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you are alone with this problem. It's just too bad that so many people have to rely on a computer to meet their emotional needs (myself included). I am alone also (well, I have a cat) and I'm only 35. I don't know how old you are, but eventually something has to give. Doesn't it? My goodness, life is hard at times. But you aren't alone. Today is a hard day because there are so many reminders.
2006-12-25 12:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by SelfGrill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put in a nice CD go out and buy yourself something. that's what i did i broke up with my boy friend and its not the same I'm a fourteen year old on my moms yahoo id good luck Merry Christmas!
2006-12-25 12:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by mrsjohnsonforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of an old song...."if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with". In your case, that's YOU! Pamper yourself, eat all you want , whatever you want, watch an old movie that you enjoy, take a nap....anything YOU want! Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-25 12:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear. I just broke up with my fiance this very morning. that is why the lord gave us alcohol.
2006-12-25 12:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go down and help feed the homeless?
2006-12-25 12:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by david o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋