I have a friend who I'm trying to assist in turning her life around for the New Year. (Let me just refer to her as Amy C.)
To put it bluntly... she is a "working girl" and I'm beginning to fear that she is going to end up with yet another STD or get beat up again!
She doesn't earn much money because she has various deformities (including a third nipple). But she doesn’t want to go out a get a real job.
What can I say or do to make her stop and do something productive with her life?
Thanks for your help and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-25 04:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i also this this person....this amy c you speak of. it is sad. i have tried to straighten her out....to no avail. she is a hopeless cause. i plan on turning her in to the local health dept. for treatment!!!
2006-12-25 04:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi I think first you need to see if she will talk about why she feel's so unloveable and cheep. I think a lot of these women do this because they were abused as a child or just beaten down and made to feel that they aren't worth much as a human being.
I my self had a very bad drinking problem and ruined a couple of marriages. I had a friend ask me to go to Church with him so I did, I swear they were talking to me every time I went then one night I was having a really bad time and feeling uselees and a failure and asked God to help me and he did he made me new! See I found out that Jesus loves us no matter how messed up we are and that even throw our Earthly father's and mother’s have failed us our Heavenly Father never will remember He hung with Prostitutes and the unclean. If you aren't sure how to talk to her take her to a Mission or local Church that has a heart for these people. I know some times people get messed up from some one ramming religion down their throat BUT Jesus is not about Religion He is about Relationships He is a friend and we can talk to Him just like we talk to our closest friends.
I Pray this will help you to help tpur your friend because she might end up dead if she dosent get off the street because of the evil in the world we live.
Please look at the links for help and encouragement and God really does LOVE YOU.
2006-12-26 12:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by jamieisjones 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assist her in getting that life
go and get her that job, find her that amazing someone who will love her and take her away from the madness
once it is there then all she will have to do is choose
now if she even then chooses to remain a "working girl" then she does not really desire to leave that life behind
this requires a lot of work on your end
gather a few close friends
start talking to people about jobs not for you, but for your friend who is starting over
talk about a new place to live, with someone whom she can trust or love possibly.
if I can help in any way just email me
2006-12-25 04:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can lead a mule to water, but you can't make it drink. the plain and simple truth is all you cna really share with her, tell her exactly how you feel, and let it be with that. people have to want to change on their own and there isn't another person that can make them. realize that this transition you hope will occur, could very well take awhile-and remember, that initial decision is simply a choice; long-term commitment and progress takes time and support. if you care about her as much as you say, you'll be there for her every step of the way
2006-12-25 04:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by princessandie1984 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just needs to be banged over and over again or who knows...yeah that third nipple has always been her way of getting extra attention
mmm here is an idea I know she is a real bible thumper and shame her for her wicked ways... maybe she can still be a nun, she was for awhile and let the sins of the flesh get to her...
2006-12-25 05:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I thought you were acutally serious till you mentioned a third nipple. She isn't going to listen to you if she hasn't already. She has to WANT to be helped. This is your Christmas wish and apparently not hers. Good luck. If this is serious.
2006-12-25 04:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by AKA FrogButt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh...that's only HALF the story! LOL
Amy told me she got the STD from YOU...tsk tsk...
Merry X-Mas
P.S. you should get that STD checked out
LOL
2006-12-25 04:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Scarlett 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO. You are ROTTEN. Those men LOVE me and you know it. You finally paid you tab just last night. Me and my STD's will be just fine, don't you worry!
BTW, it was YOU that I got the STD's from, just remember that!
2006-12-25 04:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by ... 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just let her work the streets will ya she is hot and makes lots of dough
2006-12-25 05:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She has to want to change her life. All you can do is offer your support.
2006-12-25 04:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by theophilus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋