Do you forget and forgive? or do you hold a grudge?
2006-12-25 03:28:05 · 58 answers · asked by Scarlett 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't forget, and it's really hard to forgive. Just this morning I forgave my mother after eight years for something that impacted my entire adult life...I know we're not supposed to hold a grudge, but it's human nature to do so. I think it's important to remember and not forget because if we forget, we won't learn anything. With my mother, I was finally able to forgive her because I now know exactly what she was going through at the time, and now I choose to, with that knowledge, not follow in her footsteps, no matter how hard it may be for me.
2006-12-25 03:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think it is all a matter of who your mad at, but when you do get mad at someone, I think everyone holds a grudge for a little while but then a lot of people forgive and forget. But others forgive but dont forget. I think it is ok to hold a grudge but you cant hold it forever. Always forgive. Its ok to forget but it may be hard to. So yeah I forgive and forget, usually!
2006-12-25 03:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Matty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the most part I forgive and forget. I try not to hold grudges but sometimes it's hard to forget things people do.
2006-12-25 03:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can hold a grudge for a while at times I forget what I was mad at and still be mad. I also can forgive someone that I love very quickly. As far as forgetting Im not that great at that but I can forgive eventually.
2006-12-25 03:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by trauniholmes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm one of the most forgiving person there is. I forgive but depending on the situation it maybe hard for me to forget. I usually don't hold grudges.
2006-12-25 03:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Susie B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually forgive, I rarely forget, and I never hold a grudge.
2006-12-25 03:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget and forgive. Life is too short to hold a grudge.
2006-12-25 03:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by reeni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm...I usually forgive but I don't know about the forgeting part. But I guess that it does depend on the situation. It is very hard not to hold a grudge but I am very much working on that. And I am doing pretty well so far.
Wishing you a merry Christmas,
Tina
2006-12-25 09:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I rarely forgive and NEVER forget. I don't think that means I hold a grudge, but once someone's done me wrong, I won't give them a chance to do it again.
2006-12-25 03:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by saladsnail 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I forgive. I don't forget (usually). I don't hold a grudge either. I just keep it in the back of my mind to protect myself from that happening to me again.
2006-12-25 03:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋