I'm feeling suicidal.............?

Question

My life is a joke. My girlfriend dumped me,my friends left me,i performed poorly in my grades,my mum lost her temper with me..

Really depressed on this year's Christmas..why am I trying to live when I know I will die eventually?

Answer 1

There are more fish in the see.
You are more important than her.

Go to a psychologist.

Answer 2

Every one will die eventually so what is the rush? Get a grip and enjoy everyday. You will find more friends and a special girl one day. Just dont let hope and spirit of life lead you away. So your mum lost her temper with you. Just what made her do that in the first place.? Think back as it must of been something you did to really tick her off. Trying changing for yourself and those around you will notice the change and will come back. Everyone or most are depressed during the holidays that is no secret. But this will pass. Get on with your life.

Answer 3

A number of things to remember:

1) Everyone's life is a joke. Some people just have better punchlines.
2) A girlfriend is great, a girlfriend who won't dump you is even better, but a girlfriend who won't dump you and thinks you are a stud is best.
3) Friends dont really leave. If they leave, then they aren't your friends, and now you know better.
4) The great thing about grades is this; if you do poorly, then you can always do better.
5) Parents have tempers the way dogs have fleas; some can be irritatingly frequent, and getting rid of them doesn't mean they won't come back. All you can do is spray and pray.

A cow is overwhelming to eat; a double cheeseburger, however, is more than enough to satisfy.

Answer 4

Sometimes life really sucks! And then the expectations of Christmas only serve to point it out. I get what you are feeling. I get why you want to do that suicide thing. it is a very effective way of not feeling all those bad feelings. I can imagine the pain in the pit of your stomach.

But the problem is that suicide is irreversible. Once you can get that this horrible feeling is only temporary and that good times will return soon enough, suicide is no longer an option. I know you can't see much more than the darkness of your pain right now, but I truly urge you to ride it out.

My solution to depression has been to take action. Even if you land up running around in circles, it'sokay, Activity takes you away from feeling all that pain. Find something that you don't have to push yourself too hard to do. Whether its going bowling, jogging, rearranging your furniture, it doesn't matter. some kind of physical activity will change the chemicals in your body just enough that your thinking will not be quite as murky. Another possibility is to volunteer to help needy kids or something similar. this will put a positive spin on your life because you will feel a bit more important.

Step by step, you can lift yourself out of the murkiness of depression. Going for counseling is a good idea because you can learn proven steps to take to get control of your life. I wish you good luck and that you can start seeing some brightness in your life very soon.

Answer 5

Dude I have it worse, don't kill yourself.

I've never been with a woman, I'm still a virgin in EVERY sense, I grew up with an ill father who needed constant care, I constantly get de-masculated by two lesbians I live with, none of my family has invited me for a Christmas Gathering today, I'm estranged from my mom, a father figure of mine has died tragically, I have IBS, Anxiety Disorder, Dysthimic while boarderline depressed, Schizoid Personality disorder (basically means im a hermit, and I don't want to be) people are dying left and right on my fathers side, my idea of a christmas meal are Pizza Combos and sausage soup with half a two liter of Vault (cokes version of Dew) which gives me heartburn and I won't have enough money to get antacids until tomorrow AND I know people who have it far worse. BTW that's probably the first tenth, I didn't want to make you even more depressed.

And if you EVER feel that bad again take a look at this very post and feel better about yourself.

Here is a trick, don't think of the past, think of what you will miss in the future.

Answer 6

saying you want to commit suicide is not to be thrown around lightly.Being said to the wrong person can take you where you really don't want to be then suddenly you'd do anything to have your old problems back and yes you'll die eventually but let it be then. Lets fool around with life a bit in the mean time. Being emotionally in pain can be just as painful as physical and in some cases worse. We all wish we can put ointment on the pain and make it all better. It's easier to say I give up then I'm not gonna let this get me down and fight. Don't let poeple including loved ones cloud your vison and get in the way of your good times to be had. You may not want to here this but your going to go through many more triumphs in your life that will make your old problems nothing but a piece of cake to deal with...poeple can play with your emotions but like any other game , if you play the wiser you have the power to win the game. As far as your mom, I have a feeling she still loves you, as far as your grades....only you can make the decision on whats important... much luv merry Christmas.

Answer 7

Dude believe me you will find better girls and u ignore your girlfriend when you become rich, she will come running after you and you can dump her.
Now
Do u have a father that molests you?
Do you live in a bad neighborhood say like Brooklyn or Compton?
Do you sleep hungry?
Here are some solutions
Study to get your grades up.
Dude there is probably one friend you have.
Believe me on this every single day i get home from school my mom yells at me and says why couldn't she get that other kid for her son, i say ok maybe you can put me in a foster home and she says uh uh no u ain't going to no foster home i was just kidding learn to take a joke.
Believe me, in college everything will get better.
Heck least you do not go to a superhard high school like mines which is a magnet school with no sports and 10 minute luch breaks.

Answer 8

This time of year, especially, is hard for many. Thinking of suicide is a way for myself to look inside and realize my many blessings that I was blinded to because of unpleasant situations. There are people that do care about and love you, they just sometimes are caught up in their own difficulties to realize the negative impact it may cause others. Don't let others get you down. Find something constructive to do, do something nice for someone, and you'll start feeling better. If you were near me we could go hang out and have some fun. I'm in Salt Lake City, Utah, USA. Cheer up, many wonderful things can still happen good for you. Look at your blessings.

Answer 9

To be honest, you are NOT the only person in the world with that problem. Neither are you the only person who has felt suicidal. It doesn't mean you have to act on that impulse. Why would you end your life now if you don't know what's in store for you in the future. Look at it this way, you graduate from college, find the love of your life, you get married have children and your mother wn't be so temperamental.

Answer 10

Everyone in the world has gone through what you have gone through and worse! The good thing about life is it goes up and down in waves. Everything in life is cyclical.....so wait. Time is the best healer. In the future you will have some great experiences and you'll wonder how come you ever thought like you do now. Life is full of surprises. In the meantime, go tell your Mom she hurt you and crack a joke with her.

Answer 11

First of all we are not these bodies ,ie: senses, race, color, nationality, religion, job, intelligence, etc. We are spirit soul, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul.(also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, etc.) This world is called Maya or illusion and is temporary and full of misery. Though this is true we are not to take our own life or we will become a miserable ghost. We do not die but the body dies. A ghost suffers incessantly the misery they experienced at the time of death. No one hears or sees them so they are lonely. They have no senses to enjoy so they try to inhabit others bodies to try to enjoy. They are stuck between worlds and may not get out for a very long time. One should take shelter of God who is situated in your heart and ask Him for help. go to stephen-knapp. for e-book the key to real happiness. Chant(say) the names of God over and over which will awaken your true consciousness. go to krishnaculture. for the Maha Mantra The great mantra for deliverance from suffering and illusion.(names of God) One has to see the good though they may be suffering ( you can see and hear and taste and touch and smell and look at Gods creation. and have shelter and food and a computer to ask this question. Try to be grateful for some good things there are always some good things. One has to know their constitutional position and the actual meaning of life to become truly happy.