My kids and I went over to the house to make a fabulous Christmas dinner for us and Bobby. About an hour after we arrived and started getting things together. I told Bobby he is supposed to go pick up the ring. he tells me no, he can just go get it sometime after Christmas. And then he says he has to leave to go spend Christmas with his family and we are excluded from the family gathering. Not to mention he left 2 hours earlier than he said he needed to be there. He tells me he will be back in just a little bit. I said, yea right. I was hurt and pissed. So he leaves and the kids and I go on by ourselves. We waited hours and hours so fianly we eat dinner without him. He didn't bother to call me one time to wish me a merry Christmas or to see how we were doing, knowing how badly I was hurting. I sent gifts to his family for Christmas. Nobody even bothered to call me to thank me. So I feel like I wasted my time, money, and effort I had put into them. His sister did thank me when they came to pick them up though the other night. Finaly 7 hours pass by and the kids are anxious to open gifts. We had to celebrate Christmas eve cuz my son goes to the airport this morning for Seattle. I didn't feel like we belonged at the house so we cleaned up and packed their gifts in the van and left to come back home. Shortly after we arrived home Bobby shows up. The kids went back to the house to get his gifts because unlike him, they wanted him to be a part of their Christmas. We exchanged maybe 5 words to eachother while they were gone. They returned and they opened gifts. Bobby did great with what he got the kids. Not only did he leave us behind for Christmas but he didn't get me anything either. Hows that for ya? Afterwards I went to my room and layed down. I am not sure how much time had passed before he came in as I had fallen asleep. He came in said....I am sorry, crawled into my bed and fell asleep. So there is my Christmas. How was yours?
2006-12-25 02:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I would think hard and long about where this relationship is going. You want to have someone who is there for you always, and seems to me that you are being put to the side. Either he is not ready, or you are putting to much pressure on him that he feels he needs to seperate himself from you at times. Talk about it, tell him how you fewlt, and ask him whats the deal yo...
2006-12-25 02:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Moreno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all Xmas is not about Bobby. Xmas is about you being thankful for what you already have -- your lovely children. Bobby is a fly by night. Sounds s if he has another family and he is not willing to relinquish. Bobby is not your knight and shining rmour, he may very well be standing in front of your blessings. Let the negative go and think as Christmas as your rebirth. Sit down and mke plans for the things you want in your life. If Bobby is included set up some goals with him and without him. IF there re two many negatives then he is a zero. Get yourself hero, Get God on your side and in your heart. 2007 belongs to you and your kids.
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2016-12-15 07:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And so goes the preview of the life you are about to embark on and commit too. If you think things/priorities will get better after your married, you are kidding yourself!! And keep in mind we teach people how to treat us....not just your fiance' but also your kids are learning how mom allows people to treat her. If you have daughters they will learn this is what one must do to keep or get love from a man. If you have sons they will learn this is how a woman you love should be treated. Sorry this sounds so harsh, but I know a lame "I'm sorry" would mean absolutely nothing to me. If he were truly sorry it would show in his actions.
2006-12-25 02:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by chika 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And this is the man you want to marry? This is why the divorce rate is so high, people think marriage will fix everything....move on and find someone else if you are not happy. Why is that so hard to do??? I just don't understand!
2006-12-25 03:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by dohm84 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sooooo let me guess..... You're feeling kinda unloved at this point..?
Unfortunately, just living together and having children without marriage and it's commitment just isn't worth much. He can exclude you all day, then sleep with you at night - that's wierd.
2006-12-25 02:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hun....dump this guy and get someone who is decent.
2006-12-25 02:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by T S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
And why are you still engaged to this asshole?
2006-12-25 03:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by HoneyZ2 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋