and to love them just as much as your partner
2006-12-25 02:35:39 · 14 answers · asked by Well well 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
nah its totally normal to av a crush on somebody else wen u are in a relationship, its all part of the fun, just dont get intimate with them or you will really get yourself in trouble. then agen if you are picturing the other person wen u are in bed with your partner you have to question wether you love your partner as much as you think you do
2006-12-25 05:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by little angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the nature of the crush and your personal morality. Some people say they aren't cheating when they sleep with prostitutes because there's no emotion only the animalistic side to the sex. By that rationale, if you're emotionally involved with the person you have a crush on then it could be seen as cheating.
I generally don't consider kissing someone at a party (or as part of a game) as cheating, if that person is a friend or someone I have no intention of seeing again or at any rate no intention of kissing again. Unfortunately, most of my girlfriends have disagreed with this.
On the personal morality side, the question is simple: do you feel guilty about having a crush on the person? If so, you're cheating, or at least you believe that your partner would think it was cheating if you tell them.
2006-12-25 03:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by splat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Well, I suppose you can actually love two people at a time;
Most probably for different reasons.
But you know, you'll have to make a choice.
Nobody is perfect, you'll just have to choose what you couldn't live with.
No man can be: loving, caring, faithfull, trustworthy, sexy; fantastic lover,romantic, etc....
Well, it's mostly two at a time, rarely three or more.
So, surely you are not going to collect them all.
Do choose one and stick to your decision, or you'll end up losing all.
2006-12-25 03:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Its not cheating...but personally its not far off! when you have a partner there should be nobody else you have feelings for, its not fair, how would you like it if your partner had feelings for another girl ...you'd be jealous you know it, treat people how you like to be treated and you'l get through life just fine.
2006-12-25 02:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. as long as you don't act on that crush and do something that would hurt your partner if they found out
2006-12-25 02:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's really gonna hurt if ur partner find out that you're in love with someone else as much as you love them. ouch! i would say, it's not cheating unless you act on it.
2006-12-25 02:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aslong as you don't do anything phyical on the someone else you have a crush on, nobody just fancies 1 person.
2006-12-25 04:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, of course not. a harmless crush doesnt mean anything if it doesnt come in the way of you and your partner.
2006-12-25 02:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by ohyes_itsbekah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because you're thinking about it, and it's just as bad as actually doing it...
2006-12-25 03:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not cheating... as long as you had your clothes on when you had them thought, otherwise, well......
2006-12-25 05:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by tiny_lou1965 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋