2006-12-25 02:17:00 · 11 answers · asked by jkpartee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The question is what do you want to do?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Only you can answer that question!!!!!!!
She is an (ex-wife) for a reason!!!!!!
Think hard before you make your decision!!!!
2006-12-25 02:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, things are better the second time around. This depends upon what you want. Since you will probably take it nice and slow if you decide to give her a second chance, like dating all over, youll have time to correct the mistakes that cost you your first marriage. There is nothing in life that says you cant start over and no one out here knows what the future holds. If you want something youll take a risk, if you want something bad enough, then youll risk everything. How bad do you want her back considering all thats been done? Leave the past where it belongs and youll have a good chance. But its all up to you and you alone. Good luck and have a fantastic new year.
2006-12-25 02:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wife has verbalized that than you should at least give her the time of day and consider it. Even if that consideration is for a moment. Did you leave her? Did she leave you? If she left you than maybe she feels she has made a mistake. If you left her than maybe she is trying to understand why you have left and wants to resolve or possibly change. By this post I would guess that the ball is in your court...just be respectful.
2006-12-25 06:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by ms bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she said those words to you, herself, don't believe the hype. But, if she actually did say them, remind her of the reasons that you got divorced in the first place. If she is bothering you in a way that you feel threatened by or uncomfortable with, then just go & get yourself a restraining order & that should take care of the problem!
2006-12-25 03:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its notimpossiblefor things to work out but.....
why did you two break up the first time?
how long have you been apart? they say the longer you have been apart the better.
can you start as friends and see how it goes?
doyou stilllove her?
have you both grown emotionally?
how to "handle" her depends on you and what you want. You didnt provide many details.
2006-12-25 02:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what split u up in the first place, but if she wants to get back with u, it usually means she is not happy with her life, and remembers that she was once happy with you, usually means she has something to gain from going back.be it she still loves u or there is some financial gain.
2006-12-25 02:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run don't walk away from her. Seldom can reconciliations work - you both have probably said things that will come back and haunt you in any reconciliation attempts.
You can never go back, only forward.
2006-12-25 02:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's not what you want, stop all communication with her unless children are involved. If they are, speak to her only if it pertains to the kids.
2006-12-25 03:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m in the same boat with you. Run very fast!
2006-12-25 02:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Harry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...how long were you together.,....why did you divorce and do you still love her?
2006-12-25 02:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by T S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋