I am a guy of Indian origin (South Asian Indian), but I got attached with a white girl who is American. But due to family and cultural reasons I may not be able to have relationship with her. Moreover, she is a few years older than me. I want to detach but cannot because I feel some connection of our souls between us. What do you suggest me to do? Please help me!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all!
2006-12-25 02:10:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is not that I can't find Indian girls. The problem is I already got attached (emotionally) with her. Now there is mental conflict--continue the relationship or just end it for ever. If it is good to end, how to become detached?
2006-12-25 02:22:21 · update #1
A connection of the soul is something special to share with another human being, I am so happy that you feel you have made such a connection. Because of the differences you talk about, I think you should give this relationship more time. Just continue to love one another and see if the relationship can weather the storms it will definately face in the days to come. I wish the best for you always Merry Christmas! and have a Happy, Healthy, Prosperous New Year
2006-12-25 02:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Puzzled,
I understand exactly how you feel. I am a Black teen who is obsessed about Black history and the only type of guys I liked were Black. But when I found out I had a crush on a white boy at school, I freaked out. I couldn't see how it could possibly work because his people's history was sort of hanging over his head. But he is the greatest thing that ever happened to me and is now my boyfriend. I couldn't be any happier. Now, I suggest you go after this girl and just try to find a way for your family to accept that. With a good thing, there are always negative obstacles that get in the way. Take for example, that king or prince that gave up the throne for a divorced woman named Ms. Simpson. He was happy. If what you have with her is the utmost right thing, then God will provide a way for the two of you to be together. Forget the age difference (unless you are a minor and she is an adult) and go after your girl and BE HAPPY! Merry Christmas!
-Kiarra S.
2006-12-25 02:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
paint some inian girls up with a white pulish or let some indian pals hit ya eyes with acid so you see everything white but i have a question whats wrong with indian gurls they are cute and some are very good looking at leat they are better than las vegas whores
2006-12-25 02:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by mr-why 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. You guys are to controlling Go get an Indian girl.
2006-12-25 02:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the white american women. People of your race have small penis's and can't possibly hope to satisfy an american woman for any length of a relationship, she'll return to seeking a real american man.
2006-12-25 02:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It doesn't work in the long run. Better bear the hurt now than regretting all your life later.
2006-12-25 02:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what you need to do.Your answers will not be found on here..except maybe for mine.
2006-12-25 02:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same to u..well i think its better u discuss with her about how u feel...
2006-12-25 02:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try with a real fat white woman : they're in need.
2006-12-25 02:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Florence P (le retour) 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋