I hate being jealous of others. I feel inferior of myself as if I'm not good enough.
2006-12-25 01:44:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hate being jealous and I hate it when someone is jealous of me or other people. Being jealous is really stupid not the person just having that feeling. Jealousy is just a stupid feeling to have and I refuse to be jealous of someone. It does you no good. It only makes you hurt yourself and no one else. I don't care what the reason is it's a stupid feeling to have and I think anyone who has it should stop. You can stop it. It's called controling your feelings and if you are jealous it's only going to destroy you and not the other person. It'll change you into a person that you or no one else wants to be. Don't do it.
2006-12-25 01:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By working REALLY hard at being yourself!
Learn to be content with what you have and keep on trying to acheive goals that you have set for yourselves!
You said it right, feeling jealous will only breed an inferiority complex.
Join a gym, watch makeover shows, smile al the time (and mean it!)
Plan trips and outings with your friends and make new successful friends!
2006-12-25 01:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To not be jealous of others, you must first and foremost be happy with yourself! The best way to do this is to get education if you don't feel good about the job you are currently in, or if you are young, start planning on what you want to become and start focusing on those goals. Make a commitment to yourself. Forget about what others think of you, your true friends will always be there for you no matter what.
2006-12-25 03:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is such a complex issue. my bf is the same but more over me havin male friends he always feels inferior to them like i see in them what he has not but its not true like i say to him im with him so he has all the things i want but in a personal way i think you should look at youself and think i am worthy i am me i had to do it for my self in jokes with ppl i always say i am a goddess and all should worship because we are all special and we all have things to offer"look at youself you are special an individual there are ppl out there jealous of you to be yourself and dont be jealous if you envy something then try and bring it into your life lifes what you make it"
2006-12-25 01:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start focusing on your good points. Take better care of yourself. Get some exercise b/c that increases endorphins and you'll just feel better about yourself. Jealousy is an evil bug....we all have it occasionally. Just think that your just as good as the next guy cuz you are!
2006-12-25 01:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it. I envy others for many things. But I learn to love myself and strive for improvement. Remember, we always have something others don't. And we MUST have confidence in ourselves. Or else, we will remain inferior to others for ever.
2006-12-25 01:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahe grass always looks greener on the other side. You are not less than anyone else. I had a co-worker tell me that because someone on the job was a doctor that he was better than me. I gave him a piece of my mind. No one is better than me. You are just as good as the next person, don't you ever forget it!!!!
2006-12-25 02:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to be jealous you have to CARE ! I can't work up a good CARE to save my life !
2006-12-25 02:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to feel good about yourself and what you have you do have to feel like someone is not as good as you. Just have a lot of self esteem and not be all worried and just be who you are.
2006-12-25 01:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by *♥~♫ jonas_love*♥~♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone is jealous in their own way, I feel that way along with alot of others. but I don't really dwell on it long. merry christmas.
2006-12-25 01:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋