Then he said, "Oh, come on you know you girls do it too". I agreed to check out the occasional hot guy, but I don't think I'm visualizing him naked. He got a little "aggressive about that comment" and said, yeah right. Your just not admitting it. ? He said, so if you see a hot guy you don't check out the size of his package? I said, absolutely not. I may check out his butt and how nice he fills out his jeans......and he said YOUR NOT LOOKING AT THE JEANS ..YOUR LOOKING AT WHAT'S UNDERNEATH! uggg.... not worth an argument. Anyway...any input?
2006-12-25 01:29:01 · 21 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Snv, Keltar, and I can't remember the last few guys that responded to my question. Thanks for being honest with your answers. That is what he told me he was being "HONEST" about what men look are really thinking about women. Yes, perhaps it was a test of my "limits on sexuality" or something to that respect. Hmm a relationship with me? I don't know about that ..but I did give him advice for the future. I told him if he really thinks that while checking out women there is no reason to share that information. Thanks everyone
2006-12-25 03:12:10 · update #1
Very few imagine women naked. We're looking at [a] our favorite parts, and [b] sometimes wondering what kind of lover in general she is. As in, guys look at Angelina Jolie's mouth and think, man, what would that be like?
But I know very very few guys who imagine women naked. Most guys just enjoy the view since women dress sexy much of the time anyway. Your friend is just trying to put you on the defensive so his behavior doesn't look so odd.
2006-12-25 02:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true that men are created to procreate and spread their seeds to the greatest extent possible. So it should not be a surprise that in looking at another female they are also thinking about the possibility of spreading their seeds into yet another fertile female. Whether you put it politely or otherwise; visualizing them naked, imagining the taste of her ni**les or the warmth of her love nest, that's what he's doing.
Remember ladies, men are recharged and ready in a matter of hours, and while we may not actively hunt for a willing female, they are everywhere, some even more aggressive when they know you're married or attached. So when your man leaves home, make sure his ammunition is expended. When he leaves with a loaded weapon, visualizing them naked may be the best that can happen.
2006-12-25 10:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, studies have shown women do more 'checking out' than men do. The fact remains however that men are keyed to visual stimuli (re: sexuality and reproductive behaviour), though whether they are ALWAYS visualising women naked is up for speculation.
There is a saying - "All liars think the world lies, and all thieves think the world steals." People judge others based on their own prejudices and perceptions, and your 'acquaintance' sounds like he's just rationalising his own behaviour.
2006-12-25 10:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by keltarr 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has just confessed and revealed an insecurity or two. Certainly, it should not come to any surprise to you to know what he is with you or encounters an attractive lady. From the judge of things, it appears he is definately interested in some sort of relationship with you (long or short-term). Although, he is obviously insecure about the potential of having a relationship with you. I believe he doubts you in some way, whether it be your love or that a relationship could possibly develop between you two.
2006-12-25 10:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all that women visualization seems like too much work for the average healthy hetrosexual dude with a decent testosterone level
...I would offer that guys are thinking of time ....they are more looking at thier watches and wondering how fast can they can get into that girl's goodypants
2006-12-25 14:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by On It 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not allways but provided I get a Nice pack to explore then I dont miss my chance for sure....
Big and rounded ones catch more attraction and thats when i feel like check things inside through some imagination.........
Makes fun for me and nothing serious, Not like u know what perverts do....
2006-12-25 09:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Vizz_up 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell that stupid person that a Women is Mother, a Women is a Sister and a Women is a Wife why dont he think like this
2006-12-25 11:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by heartattack262000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I may check out the ocassional hott guy but NEVER do I imagine them naked or even check out their 'pakage' and I hope to God my husband doesn't imagine other women he checks out naked, that seems to be just down right violating!!
2006-12-25 09:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. I enjoy looking at an attractive woman, especially one who enjoys dressing up in nice outfits. But, I don't necessarily think about what she might look like without clothes.
2006-12-25 09:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most guys visualize a pretty girl without any clothes.
2006-12-25 10:29:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋