If the Quaran really does state that a Man (or warrior) will have 72 virgins in Heaven- What's wrong with that

Question

Whats wrong with Modern Civilization today is that people now a days have a over dose of sex in their mind which misleads them to thinking the wrong things.

72 virgins or 72 females who have already had sex?

It dosn't matter on the number of females a Man is going to meet in Heaven -- It matters what he does with him.

Just as I said in the first paragraph people have an over dose of sex in their minds.

So, obviously, people are going to judge the man's actions towards sex as soon as they hear the word Virgin.

Just because the Quaran may or may not state a Man will have 72 Virgins in Heaven does it mean he will have sex with all of them?

NO.

For one, why go to Heaven to have sexuall contact with 72 women?

A man could do what ever he wants with them, and it most likely dosn't have to do with sex.

He could make his own little town in Heaven, with animals and gardens and foods.

He could do what ever he wants but it dosn't have to be sex -- (continued)

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Now I know someone is going to say something along the lines of "THEN WHY DOES HE NEED VIRGINS"

Now having the Quaran state that they where Virgins was a good thing, would you wrather spend time with women who had had sex in your Heaven?

Again I say, just because the Quaran says they're virgins dosn't mean their whole purpose with the man is sex -- In fact it dosn't even have to be any part of the purpose.

A man can do what ever he pleases in Heaven --

Now I'm sure even if the man does have sex, would another man of a diffrent religon not do the same?

A grown male of all religons has sex on earth do they not (Most men)?

And lastly I must say -- Dont judge a man's actions when you hear the word Virgin.

1) I never said the man HAS to have the woman

2) I'm not trying to insult any religons.

People would hold an even bigger grudge if it wasn't Virgins.

Answer 1

If I am not mistaken, the 72 virgin story comes from the writing of a later prophet and is not mentioned in the Quran.

Since it is against the teachings of the Quran for a man to have relations with anyone but his wife, I would assume that we are allowing our modern western system of sexuality cloud our interpretations of the benefit of 72 virgins.

Answer 2

1.There's nothing wrong with that. But you also need to note that this will happen with the best of men, who were good and faithful. This doesn't apply to every man.
2.Virgin has been associated with bad connotations these days, purely because of the west. They think it is shameful to be a virgin. So if they judge it's their fault, their problem. I think virgin is a good word.
3. Hey if western societies are so liberal about women why is it that their women had to fight for their rights while Islamic women already have God-given rights and freedom since the time Islam came into being. What ignorants don't realise is that Islam is probably the only religion that has given women so many rights.

Answer 3

I actually dont think there is anything wrong with that, though I am interested for an explanation of how god gets the 72 virgins to give to this man. And why the number 72, it seems somewhat arbitrary.

Answer 4

people who have worshipped God without even seing him on this earth and feared him loved him, go to heaven.
There when they can see HIM will they ask for virgins? or pray more and more ?
Actually heaven is a place where a spirit feels that everything is available to it in excess and and there is no need or want of anything.
This condition of the spirit when it is not hungry or thirsty for any worldly pleasures is heaven. (That as if everything is available to it in abundance). Our physical bodies will not be there in heaven.

Answer 5

There is no guarantee that He must have sex with them all or might not so it shouldn't be supposed that he will sleep with them all whether virgins or not.
There is nothing wrong in having sex with them all or not if it is going to be his reward for a righteous living on earth.
The most important thing is that he does not claim other people's right to live in order to get there. Instead, he should peaceful and respectful to others to get there.
thank u

Answer 6

What's wrong with that?

That means women get to be sex slaves when they go to heaven. Stop making stupid comments about all people being pimps and hoes. I'm certainly not like that. There are probably millions out there who aren't, and millions out there who are.

So obviously, people are going to judge the man's actions towards obesity as soon as they hear the word "food".

Islam is one hell of a dumb religion if it really says the 72 virgin crap. Sex or no, it's totally ignoring females.

I don't get what you're saying by "people are going to judge the man's actions towards sex as soon as they hear the word Virgin."

If I say "virgin", what does that mean??

Answer 7

Judging from many of the women I have met in my life, they may have been confused about the definitation for Heaven and Hell.

Answer 8

If he wouldn't have sex with them and just do any other things, then why is he given VIRGINS. Non-virgins can do the other stuff .........these kind of talks give me a headache :)

Answer 9

Virgins in Paradise is a reward promised by Allah سبحانه و تعالى. The number that each man gets, Allah سبحانه و تعالى knows best. (72 is for the martyrs).

Abu Umama narrated: "The Messenger of God said, 'Everyone that God admits into paradise will be married to 72 wives; two of them are houris and seventy of his inheritance of the [female] dwellers of hell. All of them will have libidinous sex organs and he will have an ever-erect penis.' "
Sunan Ibn Majah, Zuhd (Book of Abstinence) 39

It was mentioned by Daraj Ibn Abi Hatim, that Abu al-Haytham 'Adullah Ibn Wahb narrated from Abu Sa'id al-Khudhri, who heard the Prophet Muhammad PBUH saying, 'The smallest reward for the people of Heaven is an abode where there are eighty thousand servants and seventy-two houri, over which stands a dome decorated with pearls, aquamarine and ruby, as wide as the distance from al-Jabiyyah to San'a.
Al-Tirmidhi, Vol. 4, Ch. 21, No. 2687

Each time we sleep with a Houri we find her virgin. Besides, the penis of the Elected never softens. The erection is eternal; the sensation that you feel each time you make love is utterly delicious and out of this world and were you to experience it in this world you would faint. Each chosen one [i.e. Muslim] will marry seventy [sic] houris, besides the women he married on earth, and all will have appetizing vaginas.
Al-Itqan fi Ulum al-Qur'an, p. 351

Anas said, Allah be well-pleased with him: The Messenger of Allah said, upon him blessings and peace: “The servant in Paradise shall be married with seventy wives.” Someone said, “Messenger of Allah, can he bear it?” He said: “He will be given strength for a hundred.” From Zayd ibn Arqam, Allah be well-pleased with him, when an incredulous Jew or Christian asked the Prophet, upon him blessings and peace, “Are you claiming that a man will eat and drink in Paradise??” He replied: “Yes, by the One in Whose hand is my soul, and each of them will be given the strength of a hundred men in his eating, drinking, coitus, and pleasure.”
Sifat al-Janna, al-`Uqayli in the Du`afa’, and Musnad of Abu Bakr al-Bazzar

This [Qur'an 78:33] means round breasts. They meant by this that the breasts of these girls will be fully rounded and not sagging, because they will be virgins, equal in age.

Tafsir Ibn Kathir, Abridged, Volume 10 Surat At-Tagabun to the end of the Qur'an, 333-334

Answer 10

Unless you're one of the virgins. Do they have any say in this matter?