Why is a subject change always a negative thing? Why are recriminations always included in an arguement? Why do the intelligent seem so feebleminded? Is it just me who sees through all facades, or is it everyone? Does everyone feel, or don't they?
Do they hurt for those in need, or is this just another facade? I know this contradicts my previous statement.
2006-12-24 18:06:25 · 5 answers · asked by Professor Sheed 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Being completely open would be perfect intimacy.
First of all even someone who has been through 10 years of psychoanalysis does not completely know them self. They can't show you the parts they aren't aware of.
Thank-you God for defenses. Defenses protect us when we are in doubt. But defenses keep us from feeling sometimes. Some people are ashamed of showing feelings. Some people have a tough facade as you suggest.
We all have a defensive facade. Sometimes it takes time and work to get the energy out of the facade.
2006-12-24 18:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Russell W 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It really would have helped if you had summed up your feelings into a single question or at the very least seperated them. I find it hard to follow exactly what you're trying to say.
I'll answer your initial questions from the title though.
"How do you look at others?"
I often try not to judge people by their appearence or personal bias. I try to have an open mind when understanding the way other people think, even if their beliefs or attitude bothers me. However, if they are unwilling to give me the same respect that I give them, then I find it fusterating to try to be understanding and/or tolerent.
"Why when you see them to the core, do they try to lie as to hide their thoughts?"
Not everyone wants to share their inner most thoughts. You have to respect that sanctity. I'm pretty sure you have some things you would rather keep to yourself.
Anyways, that's the best I can do with such vague questions, sorry.
2006-12-25 02:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its because humans have egos. Its a feeling that we need to uphold something. A cause to the inner self.
Humans are the only animals capable of hating themselfs.
2006-12-25 02:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by icy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because nothing is as it seems and that's how we were all meant to accept it... or we will be forever trapped with questions like these.
2006-12-25 02:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by inthemaking 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like ur feeling emo
2006-12-25 02:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by awesomeness05 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋