Ive recently be cheated on which i had my suspicions about and Im curious about wat the other guy looks like.friends tell me he looks older thatn me and is a "drop kick" in looks. I'm pretty good looking and I'm wondering if I should take a ride down to her palce and sus him out.ps. I wasnt living with her and she's only been on her own 4 2 months after taking a break from me. It might sound odd but our relationship was great she got streessed out by her ex husband always hassling her about getting back wif him.
2006-12-24 17:53:27 · 16 answers · asked by jafsil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
spying is never a good thing. it shows a lack of trust, which i can understand since you've been cheated on. but if she is your ex then why does it matter what he looks like or anything now? if you were to find out do you think that would just make you more upset about the fact that she cheated on you in the first place? it might seem like something you are honestly curious to find out, but my bet is that in the end you'll just be more upset with yourself and with her for spying, and she'll be even more upset if she finds out you were spying.
2006-12-24 17:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
~By all means, you should devote every spare waking moment stalking her and spying on her and comparing yourself to her new (and former) bedroom buddies. It'll save you the grief of wallowing in self-pity, which you would be doing without such a useful and constructive diversion.
Either of the above options, though, beat the heck out of growing up and getting a life. But you already had that figured out, clearly.
PTL
By the way, the guy you describe is only Tuesdays and Fridays. You really gotta check out Mr. Saturday, who's a real studmuffin. Mr. Monday is a bit of a geek, but he's got some coin. (Watch for the Jag.)
2006-12-24 18:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You two are no longer together. Snooping around her house to catch a glimpse of her new interest, can be considered a little obsessive and creepy. Don't worry about who she's with now, and just move on.
2006-12-24 17:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He determined now to not bypass with me the day we were shifting to a unique city. I cried the 2hr force there and for kind of two weeks after that.... I recommend, each and every time *different* than the on the spot we were entering into the vehicle to go away would were more beneficial. *sigh*
2016-12-01 03:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. Give her the space she wants. She broke up with you for a reason, so your good-looking bit is not the issue. Stay away from her before you get yourself or somebody else in trouble.
2006-12-24 18:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be the one spying on her. You know a lot about her. Maybe you don't have a girl at this time that's why you are still thinking about her. Just jerk it off my friend, it will pass.
2006-12-24 17:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by anobangtanong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't spy on her. first of you dont want her to find out if you do. secondly who cares what he looks like she was with you for a reason and now shes not. and no matter what this guy looks like it doesnt matter. weather he is better looking or not. people choose people for reasons we can't explain. shes not with you know and if she deciedes she wants to get back with you thats her decision. things happen for a reason and you'll find someone else dont worry about her or who she is with.
2006-12-24 18:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please!!!
You are not baby sitter of any one, let her live her life!!! the only person that you can control is your self!!
Younger, older is her choice, if she let go a good relationship with you is her lost. Get a life and get over.
2006-12-24 17:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by latina_y_sincera 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now it sounds like you are repeating what her ex did?????
maybe she gets off on that and you are fitting the pattern.....
2006-12-24 17:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on its a waste of time and energy good luck to you
2006-12-24 17:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋