i love my bf but i also like this other guy..
i dated my bf for a year now..i really love him..he's sweet,sensitive,caring etc.. a few months ago...i met this other guy..through the internet..we chat as though we were best friends..he's really nice to be with and he's fun...i've seen him once or twice..lately..i started to have feelings for him..i keep thinking about him..even when im with my bf..the problem is that..i still love my bf and don't wan to lose him..but..i like this other guy too..it's all mixed up and painful..what should i do??
2006-12-24 15:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by chic 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you MIGHT, try to talk it out with the other guy... NEVER act on the feelings though
or a hard way... just stop talking to the other guy
2006-12-24 15:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your having feelings for someone else, you don't love your boyfriend as much as you think you do. This shows your age and if you were reading this question, the first thing you would say is... why is this person even asking this question when there's no possible way for anyone to answer this but you. When you grow up a bit you will know when your in love with someone because the whole world will stop. No one will catch your eye and the man of your life will be the only one that will be on your mind 24/7. More so, you would never disrespect your true love by spending time with another man let a lone have feelings for him.
2006-12-24 23:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by dhwilson58 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you bother talking to this other guy and, even worse, CHEAT by meeting him when you have a steady boyfriend?!
If you really loved your boyfriend like you said, you NEVER would have seen this other guy. Now you have the chance of losing your boyfriend.
Dump the new guy and stay with your boyfriend. But, if you really like the new guy, you might as well say goodbye to your boyfriend now because he will leave you anyway when he finds out about this CHEATING behind his back. And, he WILL find out.
I'm 44 years old and had been in the dating scene, so I know what I'm talking about.
2006-12-25 01:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the people who say that your new "crush" means that you don't love your boyfriend. Humans are meant to seek stimulation and novelty, and it's perfectly normal that you should become interested in others. Probably you will have crushes forever, even once you find the man of your dreams and have been married for several years.
This situation gives you an opportunity to re-evaluate your relationship. What is it that your crush does for you that your boyfriend doesn't? Is it something you didn't realize you wanted, or something your boyfriend used to give you but doesn't anymore? Or maybe you're just getting bored in your current relationship...
I say- don't act on this crush without really thinking it through. It's easy to become fixated on others when you're settled and happy in a relationship. Just because it's secure doesn't mean it has to become boring. Think about what you truly want and how you can be happy.
2006-12-25 01:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Craigs Answers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love your boyfriend, then feelings for another guy wouldn't matter. Think about what you really want. It may be hard, but think about what your boyfriend has done for you, and if youre willing to give everything up for a guy that you like that you don't even know would work out.
2006-12-24 23:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by kasey06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you said you LOVE your boyfriend and you DONT want to lose him....seems to me that this other guy isnt as important. just be friends with the guy and enjoy your boyfriend. ignore those feelings until they become a problem. and at that time, you need to consider if having this guy in your life is really neccessary...
2006-12-25 18:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by brandig008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really loved your bf , u wouldn't be seeing another guy.
2006-12-25 00:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not talk to the other guy anymore! you were the one who got yourelf into this pickle you bf nor the other guy asked for thiss.... stop talkign to the other guy right away! that is the only way you will solve your problem...
2006-12-25 00:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cannot ride two boats at the same time.
2006-12-25 00:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, I'm a guy with the same problem with 3 girls. Do what I do, F#%k them both.-EVIL ERICK
2006-12-25 00:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by Voodoo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋