How do I tell my mom that I'm a lesbian?

Question

I'm 14,my mom is very religious and thinks homosexuality is revolting. I don't know how to tell her because I'm afraid she'll exile me out of the family and won't love me anymore. I just don't want to hurt her, but I am so tired of living a lie. I have fallen in love with a beautiful girl, and I know it's love. What should I do?

Answer 1

Hi. I'm 16 and a Junior in High School and I'm a lesbian also. And I'm going to tell you truth. Most women just say go ahead and tell them. But when your a teenager, wheater your a Boy or a girl, my advice to you is,

Wait until your 18 years old or when you know you will be in college or out of the house soon. I know it sounds lame but it's the truth. Right Now as I'm telling you this, I'm kind of scared to tell me family. I'm afraid that if I tell my mother, she may cry or have some kind of attack and not speak to me. And my father, he may us profanity at me and say something like, "You shouldn't have been born" IDK but that's kind of what my father will say. He's always saying that, "Funny People" should not be on this earth and things. Well I'm Bisexual but I may become lesbian I'm not sure.

But what I'm telling you is, If your afraid that your mother is not speak to you or whatever, just wait until your 18 and out of the house and about.

Your Not living a Lie at all so don't say Negativity things towards yourself. I don't care what homphobic people say, wheather your, "Bi, Les, Gay or Trans" you should have the right to love any person on this earth. So Your not living a Lie I used to think like that but I'm over it now.

So Your Best Bet is to wait until you know what your going to do with your life. And if you do decide to tell your mother, ask your GF if you could stay at her place. Or better yet, I know this may sound crumy but go to the tyra banks so and tell them your story.

And If you need someone to talk to, you can email me.

Answer 2

IF YOU ARE TO BE EXILED I WOULD NOT SAY A WORD.
WAIT TILL YOU LIVE BY YOURSELF AND TELL HER THEN.
If she then chooses to dis you it isn't your problem anymore ,but hers:she only judges you on your choices.
Advice:do not worry so much about it:live your life.
Merry Christmas to you.
Greetings:Rob.xxxx

Answer 3

I'm 15 and i'm a lesbian I already came out to my parents actually i just came out to them about 3months ago. They havent told me anything about it (i think they are just taking it by denial) Just come out nothing bad will have, if all good things are what happen.

Answer 4

Best thing to do is just tell her.she may rant and rave and may even call you names,but she is your mother and they are always quick to forgive.

Answer 5

this might help you out. :) good luck