I'm a student. So, sometimes I realize that my life is one big routine cycle that I have to pass in the same manner as yesterday and a day before yesterday. Every morning, I refuse to wake up, but I do because, I have to do lots of staff during the whole day. Sometimes, I start thinking, Is it possible to stop all life problems and run away with my close person to some warm places...
2006-12-24 15:05:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Guess what life is routine.
What do you think it is going to be like when you get out of school? Work isn't routine after a while? Taking care of a family doesn't have its routine moments? Life isn't some sort of MTV video or beach party. Get over it. Running away to a warm place will turn routine after a while too.
2006-12-24 15:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People get into routines all the time, and often it is the people we are with. If you run off with your love, then you will just take the routine with you.
There are 2 ways to change things.
1. Do something crazy. Go away to a music festival one weekend, get up, drive somewhere like the beach and watch the sun rise. Go dancing wearing tall boots and a short skirt.
Life will feel fresh afterwards.
2. Avoid routine. Try different routes to work or school, you will see new things. Make love at different times, places and in different ways. Eat somewhere you have never been for lunch. Just do different things and your life will also be fresher.
2006-12-24 15:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by flingebunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a student... you have no choice... or only one choice... stop studying... and that would be the biggest mistake of your entire life. You have to put up with it and finish those studies.
As a reward... you will have a better quality of life where you will be able to make choices.
Remember this...
The vast majority of people between 20 and 60 are stuck in a routine for 40 years... going to the same boring job everyday. They don't have a choice... if you don't work... you die.
Once you leave your parents home... your committements start... you have to pay rent, buy food and pay for running a car. Those 3 things will goble the biggest part of most people salary.
Don't view your life as a routine... but as a necessity for survival. If you don't... you are doom to have a miserable life.
2006-12-24 15:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello. Many people realize that their lives are routine. Life is a routine however, you can change your perspective to make things less mundane. No day is ever the same, just look at life as though it is full of surprises, which is true. It would be nice to stop life problems and run away but, its also nice to dream about it since none of us can.
2006-12-24 18:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by Pierre J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life resembles mine so much! I had and still some what have this same problem. I recently quit my part time job and decided to be a bum for my last semester of my senior year. Working part time limited me from alot of on and off campus activities. Since I've quit my job I've been having a blast. I think I can make it without a job until may, but it'll be tough...thats what I want though cause the part time job made my life so predictable. You don't have to quit your job like me, but make a drastic change in your life and see how that works out for you.
2006-12-24 15:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, being with the right person is the better deal. Other than that, start exploring new areas. If you're a student, you're in the right place to check out lots of other things.
Suggestion: try something you've never done, preferably somewhere you've never been.
2006-12-24 15:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Paul W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are honestly feeling as if you need a change, decide how drastic you want it to be, and make a list about what things you want to change.
Then, go for it! Life is too short to be unhappy with the rut your in:)
2006-12-24 15:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what i do every day in the shower. it's the time i get to be alone and away from everything. it doesn't matter. it's just warm water.
2006-12-24 15:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do one or two different things and see how you feel. Nothing big.
2006-12-24 15:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by redneckgardendiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to everything a season.......this too shall pass. It is what it is.....don't make it something it's not.
2006-12-24 15:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by jo jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋