Im hate my boyfriends female friend. (She is nto hot or anything but she is book smart and they take classes together) She always calls him every five minutes. Last night he talked to her on the phone until 1:30 in the morning. (I was there mad) He isnt doing anything behing my back and I know he is not atracted to her. He says that the time of day does not matter. I say it means more when you talk late at night at least to a girl it does. Now i want to kill her. Im so jealous. I cant help it. when ever i see her i dont say hi to her any more. its such a long story and i have so much to say but i wont because i know nobody will read all this and my writing is so unorganized. What do you think
2006-12-24 14:55:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
She is not life smart though. She is so imature. The other day she told all her friends not to talk to my boyfriend because he didnt check her tire presure. She thinks sex is "yuck" (She is in her 20s). And she says that she cant understand black people. And hates hispanic because they are all promiscous. (but im hispanic and my boyfriend is black) What kind of crap is that.
2006-12-24 15:01:03 · update #1
I already told him and he says that my jealousy is illogical
2006-12-24 15:01:51 · update #2
The semester is over. They talk about drugs and porn. He is trying to educate her. She is very judgmental, she says that weed is a sin yet she is an alcoholic and she smokes cigarettes. She is such a bad friend too. My man got in a car accident and she left him. I hate her so much and he doesnt understand that. How can i stop hating her. Im not like her. Im real, she acts like she likes mebut when I turn around she gives me these evil looks and i cant act nice to her. Thats not me. When i hate you, you will know it. She says to my man taht im cold. Im actually a very nice person as long as you dont try to take my terretory. Plus she likes and her friends like him too (so obiously i hate her freinds too) Its bacause they never met a black person before and my man is hot and manly and he would be so mad if he found this but im so stressed right now
2006-12-24 15:11:04 · update #3
maybe i am isecure but ive been with him for 4 years. I love him very much and he is going places. He is one in a million
2006-12-24 15:13:04 · update #4
What makes it worse is that I cant kiss him or hug in public because he hates mushy stuff but yet when we are alone he wants to act like my baby. So alot of girls dont even know we are together or think that he likes me it suck cause i cant claim my territory.
2006-12-24 15:15:19 · update #5
kill the bichth
2006-12-24 15:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt kill her. sit him down and talk to him. be CALM. he will most likely change if you are logical, and that probably won't happen if you two are yelling at each other. be nice to her because if you dont he will just get more annoyed. tell him it does matter the time of day because he is talking to her instead of sleeping/talking to you. and if he isnt attracted to her, then i wouldnt worry that much. just remember: be reasonable. let him talk to her, but ask him not to be on the phone with her for so long, espically in front of you when you are obiously annoyed. a five minute limit? this shouldnt really be a problem once you talk to him. maybe their just talking about the class? but if youre sure hes not attracted to her then he shoulnt have a problem talking to her less often
2006-12-24 23:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not illogical or wrong to be jealous. Perhaps he gets something from her that he doesn't get from you... I can understand why that would upset you; however, remember that he is with you and is your boyfriend, not hers.
Have you considered that maybe she should be more jealous of you than you of her? As long as he's telling you what's going on, you shouldn't act jealous. This is not to say you should still be somewhat jealous, but just don't let it show as much. Let him know that you're not very comfortable with him speaking to her so late at night and that it appears he may be leading her on, but be aware that your acting jealous might end up becoming very unattractive and could drive him away.
2006-12-24 23:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jerry Hayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun...You sound very insecure in your relationship. My Best Friend is a female who lives almost 2 hours away and we have been known to talk all night (Until 5am!!)
If it bothers you so much..you might think about dating other people....I wouldn't give up my best friend for anybody!!
However....If there is more than just a friendship going on here.....you might be saving yourself a lot of heartache if you get the Bleep out of Dodge now........
Good Luck!!
2006-12-24 23:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Chief Paduke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should become book smart like her. Boys dig that.
2006-12-24 22:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your boyfriend how you feel and ask him to spend more time with you. If he doesn't, then break up with him.
2006-12-24 22:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Miles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to call him you just need to get his attention to talk with him. He's with you not her so don't worry about it.
2006-12-24 23:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dorkboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Your writing, is un-organized.
2006-12-24 22:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by ny21tb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just ok.they are only friend.you shouldn't worry 'bout that.just say him to talk less with her.
2006-12-24 22:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's harmless
2006-12-24 22:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋