If you got a girl pregnant who was only a booty call would you want to know? And girls would you tell him? Not saying you would or wouldnt have the baby, but would you tell em?
2006-12-24 14:48:01 · 17 answers · asked by we w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i would tell the father just so he knows and maybe then the two of you could work out something that is good for both of you. if you have the baby it would be nice to have the father around and apart of his or her life. no matter what it is you decision.
2006-12-24 14:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was only a booty call .. hell no I wouldn't want to know.
But thankfully I was never like that ... and I am a girl of course!
If I was a girl and I got pregnant ... yes I would tell him ... if he was a decent guy he would beable to help me through the pregnancy.
Thats why people shouldn't have sex unless they are ready for children or committed! Because when stuff like this happens, it really screws up your plans in life ..... I should know!
D'Anna 23~ Mother to Josh 6, Kayla 4 & Kaden 3 months ....
Nurse
Owner of Designs by D'Anna!
through years of perseverence!
Just because you have an unplanned pregnancy ... that is no reason to stop chasing your dreams!
And yes ... I finally have the life I've always dreamed of and NO it is not with the father of my first two. It never worked out and it was abusive.
I got pregnant when I was 16 .... because of a booty call.
It was really hard going through college being a mom ... a single mom .... trying to support two babies ... as a full time student and a full time employee for an anal retentive boss. But I did it ... eventually went to nursing school and graduated ... and started my own business recently. And I have a husband who decided he wanted to give me 3K ... just give it to me ... to help me start it out ... because he says .. he believes in me. Dreams do come true. And ps ... I married my best friend. I still enjoy having coffee with him, movies, shopping ... hanging with friends .... We've been together for almost 3 years .... and everything is how it was from the moment we became friends and started hanging out.
No matter what ... unexpected pregnancies are sometimes just a path in life for character development .... and life experience.
2006-12-24 22:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by BoogieTwoShoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would want to know if I were in the guys shoes, but that is b/c i was raised that way. And yes i would tell the guy if i wound up pregnant from a booty call. Ultimatly it is your decision as to what you do with your baby, but I think that they guy has a right to know too, I mean it is his baby too, and his reaction to the situation may play a role in your ultimate decision =)
2006-12-24 22:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Aubrey's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and if it was a booty call you should have doubled up to make sure nothing like that will happen ( if you want to be nasty and do that). Yes you have the baby it did nothing wrong!! If I was the girl yes I would tell him no doubt, if you lay in the bed with your legs spread you better be willing to take the consequences!!
2006-12-24 23:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by mommy of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him! He helped make the baby, he should know. And as far as booty calls....if he didn't want to make a baby, he should have made sure he used protection, and the girl should be on birthcontrol. Good thing all that came was a baby, and not a life threatening STD. Good luck
2006-12-24 22:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by misty n justin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that depends on what kind of guy he is do you know any thing about him? if not maybe you should so you can tell if he would be good or bad news in your life you made a choice at least for the kids sake get some info for future purposes
2006-12-25 00:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by amy3261us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him because he had part in it to dont think twice. He may want to help raise the baby. Or if he is a loser and dont want to help then do what you have to do to support your child don't let no one tell you different.
2006-12-24 22:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by tylicia02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would tell the guy. even if he isnt my "ideal man" I would still tell him because he is the childs father. later on, if he is a complete idiot..(you know, drugs, alcoholism...all that or if he just plain refuses) then i would move on down the road, skrew him, me and the kid are better off without him in our lives.
2006-12-25 00:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by psychoticangel_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eek, lol this is a tough one.
assuming you are the girl who got pg, I would definately have to think about who the other person was.
(a one nighter that you just met in a bar that night, or someone that you've known, etc)
2006-12-24 23:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by Shellberry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definetley. It takes two hun, and if you are planning on keeping it then he should have to take some of the responsibility too!!
2006-12-24 22:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by booboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋