and went to his friends house without you for a party? We have little kids and my husband was supposed to be back by supper it is now 4 hours after supper and I had to put kids to bed and tell them christmas story and things alone. Should his kids/wife come first now I am bored and angry on Christmas Eve!
2006-12-24 13:57:01 · 20 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
awww he is a jerk. of course family always comes first. i m not surprized if he comes home drunk. i think you should be mad at him. and on christmas eve too?!?! he should be spending it with you and your kids. i mean friends can wait. dont let him ruin your christmas at least you have your kids and the rest of your family. ignore him tomorrow and hint that there is something wrong. when he comes home tonight if he does, ignore and dont say anything just go to bed and leave him alone and tomorrow do not say a word to him and ignore him. he s gonna sence something is wrong eventually and then you can tell him why you are so angry at the jerk. if he doesnt care than take some action. if he doesnt notice you are mad at him then he s stupid and you could tell him but not tomorrow on christmas no fights on christmas. enjoy tomorrow with family and forget him ignore him tomorrow and be happy MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND DONT BE MAD ON CHRISTMAS
2006-12-24 14:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he went for a party I would not expect him back early . I am sure that the kids thought nothing of it unless they felt your bad vibe about your husband.
You did the right thing about telling your kids Christmas stories and putting them to bed. I don't see why you didn't get a baby sitter and you both went unless you both decided that only one would go and the other stay at home. New year's is coming, get a baby sister so that you both can go out.
Best of luck.
Don't make a big issue of this when he comes home. Just tell him that it would of been nice had he been home to help put the excited kids to bed before Christmas night.
2006-12-24 14:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he is not having an affair. A new lover would definatley win him away on this special occassion that is meant for family. This is they time when a lot of married people find out the other person is cheating on them ... because of things like this ..... it is christmas eve ... and the cheating spouse wants it to be christmas for other people too. becareful... and check up on it to see if he was really at a friends house.... oh and regardless.... ignore him for quite a while. don't fix him dinner lunch or breakfast. and if hes cheating ... dont confront him ... give him the divorce papers on valentines day ... at his lover's house.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Someone who loves you won't hurt you intentionally .... remember that.
2006-12-24 15:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he agreed to be home before supper then yes I would be upset. It is a special night if anything else he should be with his family. i can understand him not being there if he was working. Try not to get to angry right now and let this ruin the day for you and the kids. I would tell him how dispointed you are but not if he has been drinking wait for when is sober and then talk to him. See what happens.
2006-12-24 14:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why he would have gone to a party without you in the first place. Did he invite you, and you chose not to go? It's a bit suspect that it's on Christmas Eve too, in my opinion. Hopefully you trust him, because that sends up a lot of red flags, looking at it from an objective perspective.
2014-12-06 06:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you must have been reading my mind I just signed on to ask this very same question and BTW I am very mad and my husband is not home yet either. I just think men are inconsiderate they don't see things as we do. I can hear them thinking well I'm gonna be home all day tomorrow so I better go hang out 2nite...you know!!!! I feel your pain. Just try to sleep it off that's what I'm about to try and do so you don't end up angry all day Christmas! Good Luck......We'll I guess now I won't post my question :-)
2006-12-24 14:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by I wanna stay on maternity leave! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah i would be angry!! Its christmas and you have little kids who i am sure would have enjoyed having their father home to tuch them in and read stories on chirstmas eve!! Then he has the nerve to be 4hours late!!! Oh no, i would have a talking with him when he gets home. To top it off he didnt even ask you to go to the party with him and you are his wife. You have every right to be mad, i know i would be!
try to have a merry christmas!
2006-12-24 14:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Merry yule Eve to you besides mght...sure you're turning out to be a celebrity for Christmas ..My plans are to spend the vacations with my relatives i`ve no longer yet opened any delivers yet we do to have the custom of beginning off one contemporary on Christmas eve and something on Christmas morning . Merry yule
2016-10-18 23:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he is a jerk for going by himself in the first place, but considering he is 4 hours overdue then something is up, either he is in some kind of trouble or he is causing some trouble
time to investigate instead of sitting there fuming and being angry
if he is at his friends house and just didn't call, i say no sex for a month for him, and a week on the couch
2006-12-24 14:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAH I WOULD BE FURIOUS!! WHAT KIND OF PARTY IS SO IMPORTANT THAT YOU FORGET ABOUT YOUR FAMILY AND LEAVE IT UP TO YOUR WIFE TO DO THE TRADITIONAL THINGS YALL ALWAYS DO TOGETHER. YOU MIGHE WANT TO CHECK THAT OUT. IT SOUDS LIKE SOMEBODY MIGHT BE HAVING A LITTLE AFFAIR OR SOMETHING. YOU NEED TO CALL OVER THAT FRIENDS HOUSE AND SEE IF HE IS OVER THERE AND ASK HIM TO COME HOME. DON'T BE MAD WHEN YOU TELL HIM JUST SAY IT CALMLY. AND WHEN HE GETS HOME JUST IGNORE HIM AND WATCH TV OR CALL ONE OF YOUR CLOSE FRIENDS JUST TO SEE WHAT HE DOES AND HOW HE REACTS TO THIS. IF HE COMES HOME AND WANTS TO EAT BEFORE HE TAKE A BATHE HE'S NOT CHEATING, BUT IF HE TAKES A BATHE SOON AS HE GET IN. SNAP ON HIS ***
2006-12-24 14:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋