husband is boring and never talks?
2006-12-24 13:52:35 · 11 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First consider relationship counselling.
2006-12-24 13:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you have to be honest with your self, you used the word "NEVER" talks and I am sure that that is not true.
He may not talk about the things that you may think is interesting or he may not hold a conversation for a long period of time.
As far as boring, you can think of things to do and if he does not want to do them or come along then you will have to do them yourself. Tell him that you miss him not coming along and wish that he would. There could also be a problem with him if this is new, if it is not new and you married him this way then you will have to live with it until he wants to change. You can always continue to encourage change but you can't change him.
Best of luck.
2006-12-24 22:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most husbands are like that when you'v been together for so (too) long. Talk to your friends or relatives. Generally, men tend to have less to say because they view what women talk about as gossip. They like to practise "selecting listening". Find your own things to do, hobbies, read, gardening, etc.
2006-12-24 22:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other things to keep your intellect alive and active. Why doesn't he talk, has he always been quiet? If so, why is it becoming a problem now, if not, what brought it on? Communication is a large part of a healthy marriage, and it is necessary for things to thrive as they should. Find the reason for the problem, identify it, and treat it.
2006-12-25 11:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably need things and situations to talk about, try living new experiences together for example go to a strip club, read a new novel, go to watch a movie, rent a porn and see it together, what he needs is something somewhat extreme so the words can flow easily, nothing like excitement to make it happen, live together some real and exciting experiences together, you know him and you probably know what to explore/try.
good luck!!
2006-12-24 21:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can greatly influence your husband. Try to contradict his actins by being jolly, happy and always put a smile on your face. Show him how great and how lucky he is to be your husband. Pray it also to God. Jesus Christ can change him and also will save him. Put your trust and cares to God. God Bless You!!!
2006-12-24 21:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mari 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Getting married is easy...It is Staying Married that is a challenge....it needs work, patience, intelligence and a fun loving instinct.....
If the relationship is worth keeping...work on it...
2006-12-24 21:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by deevoonay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
read a book or talk to yourself I have no idea maybe he is depressed but if he doesn't want to talk I don't think you can make him
2006-12-24 22:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by what gives 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to France. Show him another lifestyle. He needs a change.
2006-12-24 21:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy...find a new husband...you didn't know this before you married him?
2006-12-24 21:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋