so i feel so sad ..............i just want to cry.........what should i do
2006-12-24 13:42:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Other - Holidays
MY SON WAS 15 AND I THANK U ALL FOR THE KIND WORDS..................
2006-12-24 13:57:04 · update #1
I am very sorry for your loss, and, it is ,understandable and very normal to feel sad about this around the time that it happened even Jesus felt sad at hearing about his friend Lazarus' death even though he knew that it was possible to resurrect his friend and he did so, he resurrected Lazarus. death is not a natural occurrance at any time, we humans were not designed to cope with death and therefore it is unnatural and a very sad thing for us, but that does not mean that there is no hope, actually there is hope, so cry it is good to let it out, bottling it up will only make it harder for you, I would like you to check out this scripture in (Revelation21:4)where The trueAlmighty God wipe away every tear from the faces of all human beings and remove sickness graves, all pain, sorrow and mourning as well as death will all be removed from mankind, it says there, that, Jehovah God will actually swallow up death and hades (grave) that these sorrows and all the suffering that we have to cope with these days will all be a thing of the past and will not even be recalled, even all the dead will be resurrected back to life to be with loved ones to enjoy all the blessings!Please feel free to email me and get it all out I know it can help to talk about it, so feel free to talk to me I would love to be there for you, I hope that helps even just a little, and I wish for you only comfort and true security as wellGod's spirit and help to be with you.May he bless you and give you much comfort, and help you cope with this sadnes that you have right now, until he takes it(sorrow) away from you, and gives you back your life with your beloved Son what a wonderful time that will be for you and your family All you have to do now is to find out how you can be there to greet him when the time comes for his awakening wishing you much peace and may you be comforted by God's Word that is sure to be acomplished very soon!
2006-12-24 14:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that you must go and lock yourself for a good 15 minutes or so to release all your sadness, cry, hit a pillow, put such over your face so you can scream whatever it takes to let it all out, once all this negativity is out put yourself together and go downstairs with the ones you love and that love you as much as your son does, if anybody asks just tell that you took a few minutes to remember your son.
People say it is hard and that a mother never gets over it, but you must learn to deal with your feelings after all you don't want your son to be looking at you sad on these special days, do it for him.
May you and your family have the confort and warming of God not just today but always and remeber your son will be sitting next to you at the diner table so put on a happy face for his sake.
May his soul be blessed forever and ever....
2006-12-24 21:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lil' Gay Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sure your son would rather you be happy after all it is christmas, I know it must bring back all those feelings for you but from a stranger to a stranger I would like to wish you a Merry Christmas from Australia.
2006-12-24 21:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by bossw2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omygoodness! i am so sorry! you should try to make the best of your holidays by feeling happy and joyful try to forget the bad times until they are over. christmas is about being happy. if you feel like crying then just cry. how old was your son if he was abit older and you had good times with him try and remember those. i am very sure he would like you to be happy this time of year. well i hope this helped you. have a very MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!! AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
2006-12-24 21:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Josiee (: 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO cry. If you were not sincere you wouln't feel like you do. I can't help by telling my story, but I know that if you go vehemently, passionately to your own God, you will be heard. Lay it on the line to the most sincere being you know, and you will even get so lucky as to know That Being better. There is a reliable One.
2006-12-24 22:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Albatross 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
merry christmas to you too, and remember that your son is in a better place. I'm sure that he wants you to enjoy the holiday season with him, and he will be happy when you are happy.=)
2006-12-24 21:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by xtina* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take comfort in knowing that we who have also lost love ones, grieve with you and remember who you still have with you to love. God bless you and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-24 21:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry about your son just keep praying and be stromg and may GOD BLESS YOU and your family also Merry Christmas. Keep your head up.
2006-12-24 21:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by D'Asia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should pray to god for guidence and he will help u take the pain away. also, think of the good memories u had with ur son. merry christmas....god bless
2006-12-24 21:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by Candy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your loss of your son !
Try to remember alll the great times he spent with you and all those funny things he used to say and do !
Remember one day you will see him again !
God Bless !
2006-12-24 23:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋