to day i was a this gas station that is right next to the place that i work at and this girls who works theres cousin asked me if i liked her cousin and if i wanted to go out. it was really awkward i told her that i was gay it was really weired almost like she didnt believe me or she was going to start laughing or some thing. her cousin seems like she is really nice which for some reason made me feel even weirder
2006-12-24 13:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by joe s 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You don't have to tell her you're gay, if it'll help avoid the awkward moment. Tell her...you're currently in a relationship. She'll back off, if she's normal. If she persists, tell her (a little bit harshly) that you're just not interested, and to back off.
Oh, and ignore those retards that answered before me...geez...
2006-12-24 13:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by CherryPie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 07:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl asks me out it always makes my day. I handle it by telling her I'm gay, or just by telling her I'm already seeing someone (which I am). It's just best to tell women that you're gay... and while your at it, if you can compliment them and make them feel good about themselves, all the better.
2006-12-25 06:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually laugh first, and say you're joking right? I don't think we're compatable. Rejection is something she should be used to as I don't think many guys would like a girl who is so aggressive.
2006-12-24 16:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her cousin doesn't know you very well, then she's probably just messing with you. Either that or you are drop dead gorgeous. Ahah! Anyways, I say if she can't accept the fact that you're gay, or if ANYBODY ELSE can't accept that, then you don't need people like that in your life.
2006-12-24 13:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do the same...just tell them I'm gay and treat is as a compliment.
2006-12-24 14:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, its always a compliment, and you can't help how others feel.
You did the right and correct thing. Their reactions were honest and they just didn't believe someone so cute would be unavailable. : )
2006-12-24 13:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey i go for it anytime i get asked out and never fail to make out with them that ask for it. Wow you really must be gay to pass up[ something like that.
2006-12-24 13:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
as BI-curious i would be happy if ether sex took intrest, but so far i reem to disgust both sexes...i dont even know what i did to turn them all away...i some times wounder if my friends even like me....now i am sad
2006-12-24 13:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
dont over analyze things. just be flattered by it.
2006-12-24 13:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by mickey 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋