I have no friends, no family, and not one person to talk to or someone who loves me...i can't take it anymore and i am sitting here cring on chrisitmas eve. I am depressed, alone, and not wanted or loved. PLease i need help!
2006-12-24 12:32:35 · 18 answers · asked by green and blue knight 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everyone is wanted. I would stop thinking about it, take a walk, see some lights, and be thankful that you are alive, healthy, and have a roof over your head. You can always join a book group or other group that interests you. Sometimes people don't come to you--you have to go to them.
2006-12-24 12:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by operaphantom2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can email any time you need some one to talk to...I will be your friend. My email address is clark9857@sbcglobal.net
You are loved in Jesus name, I'm sorry that you feel alone (Jesus is with you) . Try watching TBN TRINITY BROADCASTING NETWORK...It's a ministry station on 24 hours, or the WORD NETWORK...I'm sure you'll hear something inspirational and uplifting if you watch that channel. This is a lonely time for many, the Holidays...it's when you may think of your family if they've passed...or just want to share the enjoyment with family. Jesus does love you, and does not want you feeling depressed.
Try joining a church that is faith based, and family-oriented. Churches are like a family, that's why we call each other brother and sister. Try going to Yahoo as well, and joining a friends group, there's a lot of inspirational things on friends 4all.
Be in courage in Jesus name!
2006-12-24 21:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same position i have never really had any close friends and i have parted company with my family,but it doesn't really bother me even at this time of year,but i know i don't want to be alone all my life. I just accepted things and decided that it didn't really matter if i was alone i could still live my life and experience it before it was gone. I can't give you any great advice but i wouldn't be taking time out for you by responding to you if i didn't care for your situation or for you.You should probably ask yourself what you want from life and set about getting it.
2006-12-25 17:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by catalyist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way you feel right now a lot. You have to remember that you may not have friends or family with you but you can always love yourself. Dont make yourself believe your not wanted or loved because trust me when I tell you that someone does love you and there is a soulmate for everyone on earth, so someone wants you. Be patient. You cant rush destiny or fate. I got a dog and let me tell you that damn mutt loves me back no matter what. dont be down on X-Mas. Make yourself a hot chocolate with some marshmellows in it, sip it and let it make you all warm them go outside and yell " THIS IS MY WORLD" really loud.It is always your world.... do what you want with it, and **** the rest of them...I am a little wierd with how I deal with ****, but it seems to work for me.
2006-12-24 22:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by lilbitome1015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you go out and see a movie? How about calling someone up and asking them if they want to go to the movies with you. Why not take yourself out to a nice dinner. Start going to group activities like church or dance troupe. I met my boyfriend by asking him out to the movies. You're not alone -- you'll find a friend just like I did. We can both meet more people by being outgoing.
2006-12-24 20:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jo K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been where you are, life does change and get better...Try to look at the bright side of life you are alive, so don't feel sorry for your self, find someone that needs help, volunteer to help cook tomorrow, or buy someone needy a gift, or visit a nursing home..it will make you feel better inside, and the times will get better....
2006-12-24 20:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU'RE LOVED BEYOND IMAGINATION. YOUR BEST FRIEND LOVES YOU SO MUCH HE DIED FOR YOU. WHEN YOU HAVE JESUS IN YOUR HEART YOUR NEVER ALONE. EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT, ILL BE AROUND.
Defend the poor and fatherless; Do justice to the afflicted and needy. Deliver the poor and needy; Free them from the hand of the wicked.
Psalm 82:3-4
GOD BLESS
2006-12-24 20:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by thewindowman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's so sad honey. Don't worry. Go out and do something to help others or go out some place where you can try and make friends or get a bf like a bar or a coffee house or something. I can be your friend.
Write me at....thishottie_is_already_taken@yahoo.com
2006-12-24 20:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by alisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have fun even if i'm alone. I go shopping, sing to karaokes, watch a horror film. anything because what youre doing does not worth a second
2006-12-24 20:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Owen Geiscelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never say that. the only way that this can actually happen to you is if you have driven everyone away. from the sounds of it though, you haven't. go out and find friends, there are all kinds of people out there. if you need to email me for some support.
2006-12-24 21:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Guilver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋