How many of you have been cheated on repeatedly an still managed to forgive to your partner? what do you think about people who cheat more than once?how is your relationship after that?
2006-12-24 12:03:49 · 20 answers · asked by Eli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DO NOT let it happen repeatedly.......ONCE, and you say, "NEXT!"
2006-12-24 12:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The past few times that I've been cheated on, the relationship ended. I moved on. Very few relationships survive infidelity, even if the cheater is sincere in repairing the trust. As the old saying goes, "once bitten, twice shy." Of course, when children come into it, it's a whole another question.
Repetitive cheaters are selfish, immature people.
They don't care about other peoples feelings. They only care about their own high. I think the only time they'd come to any remorse is if they like a girl/guy and find out that they're playing them too.
2006-12-24 20:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ick - I've generally reacted poorly when someone has cheated on me... at least until recently.
Going back over my relationships, I used to cheat on my partners quite often, and they cheated on me (some of them at least) Sometimes we both know what was going on, and just kept at it...
My last relationship - my gf/housemate/partner ran off for a month and cheated on me with two guys (at least). When we got back together she lied, claimed she hadn't done anything with anyone.
And then she tossed herself at me and (being stupidly trusting) we resumed our sex life...
When she started to turn yellow, and vomit a lot - took her to the hospital - she'd got Hepatitis from one of the guys... Thank the Gods she didn't give it to me!
We talked after that - she was more or less honest about what she'd done, and we lived together for another 5 years.
And she became the first woman I never cheated on in a long term relationship. Things were good for a long time after that...
But all things end eventually - she went back to partying and hanging out with a kinda seedy crowd of folks younger than her... drinking, drugs, and probably sex...
And now I'm single... and not sure if I want to date again...
-dh
2006-12-24 20:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating sucks plain and simple.I have had it done to me by my now ex wife and I hate her I forgave her once but twice is way to much.And people who cheat have no care about anyone but thereselves and are not worth the time.So if you have been cheated on more than once by the same person turn and run they will do it to you as much as you can take it and they will feel no reamorse for doing it they think its a game and its a bad one.Good Luck
2006-12-24 20:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have cheated on my wife's a lot only because they didnt give me what i wanted at the time.my first wife didnt like sex at all
and when we did have sex it was like drilling a hole in a peace of wood it was real bad.my second wife she didnt like it very much
either because she was in love with a other man so my marriage lasted a week.so i dont feel bad at all for what i did and i would do it again it take two to tangle the cheater and the other person who want to be cheated on and if bye chance some body get hurt well i guess then there was some thing wrong in there marriage in the first place to cause this to happen.
2006-12-24 20:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i have cheated on a boyfriend in the past and i felt horrible about it. i immediately told him the truth about what happened. i never apologized for what i did but i did tell him that i was sorry for hurting him. i broke up with him because i realized that if i was cheating on him than apparently i wasnt getting what i wanted out of the relationship. i am now with the guy that i cheated on him with. we have been together since the first night we met. i have never cheated on him and i never will. we have 2 kids together and even though sometimes i am not happy, it would hurt me too much to hurt him that way. i also have tremendous respect for him and i could never cheat on him knowing that my kids would know that their mommy cheated on their daddy someday
2006-12-24 20:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand cheating, it's a violation of trust and you just waste each others time. My boyfriend cheated on me last year, thankfully, he broke up with me before I broke up with him, and he didn't tell me about the cheating until after, which was a bad thing at the same time, because I didn't understand why we were breaking up.
-Don't do it and don't tolerate it!!!!!!!!
2006-12-24 20:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Wishful Writer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who cheats once may be guilty of a momentary lapse in judgement, with serious consequences. Anyone who cheats more than once is a slug. They're just taking up space.
2006-12-24 20:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating more than once, there is no relationship after that. i know i have forgive this guy for almost everything that he did cuz i loved him more than anything and any1. but now i realize that he was just taking advantage of me. anyways. cheating is just bad and if the person cheats on his/her partner then i don't think he/she wants to have a relationship. maybe u can forgive once and think that "hey, he was stupid then, but he changed". but that's it. one chance is wat he gets. if he screws it up, then his fault. screw him/her.
2006-12-25 00:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks. It hurts. If both people are totally committed to making things right I guess it can. Just don't cheat yourself. Sometimes we want things to work out for all of the wrong reasons. Make sure you do what is right for you!!
2006-12-24 20:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much disrespect there for me,the only reason someone would stay in a relationship where they were being cheated on,is that you have no respect for yourself and that you don't deserve better !!
2006-12-24 20:12:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋