first off i has two surgeries within two weeks. i had kidney stones removed through my urter tube. for those who do not know they go through the vagina to do this rather than making an incision. i spent 5 days in the hospital last surgery was a week ago. i have been depressed i missed 3 weeks of work the whole month of december is a fog to me. here it is christmas eve and my family is all out of town for the holidays. it is just myself my husband and my son. so yes im in pain and i feel a little depressed over it all. just the basics. well here is the real kick in the butt. i havent been sleeping well so finally at 4am i fall asleep. woken up to my husband trying to get it on. well he decides to feel me up ok i can deal with it all while he thinks i am sleeping and the next thing u know in my grogy state i see camera flashes. he has exposed my breast and butt an masterbates while taking pictures of me without consent. i was sleepily unaware and shocked. i confronted him. ur reaction is
2006-12-24 11:59:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok i agree with you all. i was so mad i laid there frozen for about 30 minutes and then went down stairs and just lost my cool. i said rape and i said i was calling the police. i called him every name in the book pervert stuck most the day today. we talked some not alot. i told him how i felt violated and about the sick and twisted perversions of the situation i told him so many things imaginable. then i climbed in bed with my son. today i refused to discuss it my sons only 5 i wasnt going to ruin his christmas. though i have avoided allowing my husband to touch me. i have kept smiling around my son but i have gone off by myself today many times and just sobbed so hard. i am at a loss honestly. my husband is a good man and he would give his life for me and my son. i was his first sexual expeirence and his last. and lately havent been much of one at all he is only 25 and i no he relizes he screwed up in a major way and he is sorry all and any pictures were discarded as of 5 30 am
2006-12-24 13:33:24 · update #1
we have been married almost 3 years and things have basically been good. we have had a few ups and downs as all couples. i wanted to leave last night but i had no where to go. i love my husband very much and i dont think he relized at the time how wrong it was what he was doing. does he now i think so. he didnt try to have sex with me i guess in consideration of the surgery...but he did touch me and masterbated. im kinda grossed out by that but a lot grosses me out. sometimes i wish he would have sex with someone else just to releive his libido a little and get the pressure off me. i cant say i have been very sexual lately do to circumstances. i blame myself some and i blame him a lot. though when all is said and done i no i would never find another man im this world who could love me like him. i think maybe this was one of those really big mistakes for him. i have so many emotions running through me right now. any advice now the whole stories out would be marvelous. thank you all muc
2006-12-24 13:37:53 · update #2
That is wrong in so many ways!!!!
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2016-12-01 03:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had surgery only a week ago and he can't have some consideration for u and control himself? That alone tells me he is self-centered and just plain inconsiderate,then the privacy issue with the photos while he thinks you're asleep? You need to have a serious and frank discussion with him about putting your partner's needs above your own desires. A professional counselor would probably help considerably.
2006-12-24 12:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by K-K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your husband needs help...That is rape!! You didn't consent to it and even though you are married that gives him no right to force sex on you....You need to leave this man...who knows what else he is doing while you are groggy and sleeping!! You need to talk to someone about this....I would love to know what he said....he is sick and I think you and your son need to get out of that situation as soon as possible...Hon it is rape no matter how you want to look at it trust me!!
2006-12-24 12:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by Floridapurrfection 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a weirdo I would have kicked him right in his stuff..
p.s I hope you feel better
2006-12-24 12:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he is masturbating to you not getting it on with the next chick.
2006-12-24 12:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what i sicko i would order him to leave thats not rite that is invasion of you
2006-12-24 12:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by ashley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just wrong, and kind of twisted...
2006-12-24 12:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Leroy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋