hi i like this one boy and since im not going to school until 2 weeks i wanted to call him. i was wondering is it better to call him with a friend or just me and him. and if you say with just me and him plz tell me what to say and how to lead it towards do u like.
2006-12-24 11:52:57 · 19 answers · asked by cr8zy_about_b-ball 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It seems as soon as the telephone was rolled out into the world, girls have found a way to listen in while a prospective boyfriend is grilled about whether he likes the listening girl or not. First "party lines" (you gotta be at least 50 to know what those are), then your home actually had an extension phone (wow, 2 phones in the same house), then came 3 way calling. Boys just don't have a chance. If a boy gets a phone call from a girl, there are usually at least 3 other girls on the line supressing their giggles or tears.
An easy way to find out if he is interested in you is a little honesty. Call him if you like, but just you. Talk to him about the holidays, what you want for christmas, school, teachers, your friends (but don't gossip), and when you say bye - say somethign like "i love talking to you" or "talking to you brightened my day". In other words, let him know you enjoyed talking to him and give him your number if he wants to talk again.
He may not be the greatest conversationalist in the world, most boys aren't. They tend to have trouble talking to girls, especially if they like them and want the girl to like them back.
While in this day of womens lib, their is nothing wrong with calling a boy or even asking him out, it will feel a lot better if you don't push things. Touching is also a good way to get his attention. When you are talking to him in at school or whereever, as naturally as possible, slowly reach up and brush his hair back, or brush some non-existant lint from his cheek. Simple touches have a powerful affect on the male.
If he still isn't taking the lead, arrange to be where he is going to be - like the mall - and turn it into a lunch date.
Using your girlfriends to see if a boy likes you is a rite of passage, but one girls (and boys) should strive to grow out of as quickly as possible and concentrate on honesty in the relationship.
2006-12-25 03:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definetely say just you and him. That will show him u r mature and know what u want in life and you arent afraid to go for it. Talk about Christmas- ask him if he got what he wanted- ask what he did get! Tell him about your Christmas. What did they have for dinner? Tell him u and a friend usually go to the movies over Xmas break but her parents have other plans and let him know u hate going to movies alone and see if he wants to go with you!!!! Good luck! Definetely go fo it girl! Life is too short not to take a chance on love! If u dont grab him someone else will!
2006-12-25 13:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call and ask how his Christmas was and start a natural conversation and let it branch out from there. It will come natural. I dont think there is a need to ask if he likes you or for you to tell him you like him. The best relationships start out as friends.
2006-12-24 13:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find the courage and call him. Talk to him and find out if both of you have a lot in common!!! Ask him questions like. What kind of music do you listen too? What's your favorite food? Are you close with your parents? If he is close with his father; that is a good sign. That means he has the man insticts that are positive. Good luck. And maybe both of you can go see DreamGirls together!!!
2006-12-24 11:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
appears like gasoline or constipation. my daughter acted a similar way bc she became constipated, yet because of the fact that is breast milk that throughout all threat is high no longer your concern. likely gasoline. get some Ovol drops on the drugstore and supply her a splash till now feeds. it pushes the gasoline out whilst the milk is going down. if issues persist, call the checklist.
2016-10-28 07:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I think you should talk to him by yourself becuase if you talk to him with someone he might think you're not interested in him and want to play around. But I think that you should first talk to him about normal stuff and school, what you like, movies, food, then ask so do you have a gf, if no o who do u like? kinda play around with it. Also make it fun don't be so so who do you like just be casual.
~ML
2006-12-24 12:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by ML 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by yourself, if you call him with a friend he's just gonna think you're an immature dork.
umm... just call him up and be like "hey, whats up? hows ur holiday going? doing anything fun?"
in reality, it's not any different than talking to one of your girl freinds, you just don't talk about boys to him.
2006-12-24 11:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
call by yourself. start by asking if he had a merry xmas and then ask him what he got. After you are talking for a minute just ask him. Don't be a chickensh1t
2006-12-24 11:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by talarlo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should probably call him yourself otherwise the boy may think that you are childish calling him with a friend.
2006-12-24 11:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be better if you call him with a friend so she can help you to say what you need to say.
2006-12-24 15:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by sillygoosetonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋