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My friend's wife won't tell anybody about her risk factor to get pregnant.
She wants to have child but at the same time she is very afraid
that she will die if she gets pregnant. Her husband tried everything
to convince her ( including seeing a Pshycriatist) but she is still afraid. She told her husband that she had some problem
before marriage ( abortion/sterilization type ---guess) but she won't tell it to anybody.

Now the question is : is there realy any basis of her fear ? So far I know that what ever problem she has is treatable by a good Doctor ? Am I right here? Should not she just go to the Doctor and tell everything?

2006-12-24 11:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by ron s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

3 answers

That depends. There are some woman with medical conditions that would not be able to have children because of the medical risk to themselves. My friend just had to have an abortion because she got pregnant, but the doctors told her that it would kill her to have a child because she wouldn't be able to take her medication. I'm not sure what kind of medical condition she has.
She should go to the doctor to find out if she's able to have children. She might just not want children though.

2006-12-24 11:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She may of had a bad experience in her life that she's scared to tell anyone about, one where she may of been forced to have an abortion or something. I think she should talk to a doctor she feels most comfortable with AND maybe see a psychiatrist. I have PCOD which is an ovarian disease that can cause problems if I do get pregnant, however, it is treatable if caught early enough, so there really is no reason for her, unless, like I said, there may be something scaring her and she doesn't want anyone to know.

2006-12-24 12:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 0 0

there is a genetic disorder, that you get really sick if you get pregnant, and if the baby makes it,it's usually sp ed.I knew a Lady that had that genetic disorder, she had 4 miscarriages. There is an illness I had called toxemia (major swelling and high blood pressure). I had it and it goes away after you have the baby.Maybe she has a genetic disorder. Maybe she would like to adopt?

2006-12-24 11:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Monet 6 · 1 0

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