Now I feel horrible that she had the sleepover without me. Every time I think about her, I want to cry. Should I go to her house the next time she invites me to a sleepover?
2006-12-24 10:46:22 · 15 answers · asked by hello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am sorry that happened to you.
Maybe she had already invited the other friends and felt pressured to not postpone the sleepover. She would have loved to have you there too, I am sure.
Please don't feel too bad. And yes, go to her next sleepover.
My best friend and I had a standing "hang around together" every Saturday. One Saturday she was late calling and I was all excited that she finally did call. She then asked if she could borrow my bike so her and another girl could go for a bike ride together (obviously I was NOT included). My feelings were really hurt, and no, I did not let them borrow my bike.
I did stay friends with her, best friends. But every now and then I have to bring up that day as a little dig to her. LOL I have been bringing up that little dig for 40 years now.
2006-12-24 10:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh definitely sweety, there will be many more chances. I know when I had sleepovers and my best friend couldn't make it I would be feeling all kinds of sad, even though I understood her situation. But, at the same time, she may have been planning on having fun that night and it's not fair for her to suffer when she had been planning it. There will be more sleepovers. Just hang in there.
2006-12-24 10:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. It's too bad you missed this one, but there will be plenty of other sleepovers for you to attend. I'm assuming that other people were also invited, and it would have been rude of her to cancel just because you couldn't go.
2006-12-24 10:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cause you couldnt go doesnt mean she shouldnt have her sleepover. Maybe her Mom said No if you want to have a sleepover its now and if your friend cant come well have fun with other girls.
2006-12-24 11:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are good she wanted to reschedule but found that she couldn't - maybe there simply weren't any available dates for a month or two, or maybe too many other girls couldn't come to the other dates.
Relax, it's not a personal snub. She invited you, and she continues to invite you? Sounds like she wants you to attend!
2006-12-24 10:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you were unable to attend one of her sleepovers, doesn't mean that there won't be more to come. One sleepover isn't the world, so no reason to cry about it. You were unable to go, and she cannot be upset about that.
2006-12-24 10:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did they say that!? that is not any longer cool!!! They shouldn't mess with friendships. tell them that u adult males do no longer hangout sufficient. And if u do no longer opt to do this then tell them that u adult males will purely hangout on the mall or the movies. yet right this is a concept, no offense yet according to danger u adult males r pushing over the cut back of sleepovers.
2016-12-18 18:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by biedrzycki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes. Perhaps she couldn't cancel because of the other girls. There will be a next time and when there is then go. I am sry to hear you had to miss out on it, but there will be others, just be patient.
2006-12-24 10:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best way to go so you won't hold grudges. Be honest with her on how you feel. I know it's easier said than done.
But also realize that other people's lives and plans can't revolve around your own.
Good luck!
2006-12-24 10:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by tow_matertater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat, u think because YOU couldn't go the her party on the day that she had it she should have rescheduled it? just for you? it wasn't ur party sweetheart, get over it. i kno it sux being excluded like that, but at least you got invited right? still be friends with her, i kno she stills cares, and she probably did try and move the day, but couldn't because of any number of reasons.
2006-12-24 10:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by whoops :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋