like b4 i have a bf of 4 months on new yrs and never kissed, hugged, held hands, cuddled twice, but now hugged, but not so much hand holding, or cuddled all my friends said oo hes not cuddling with u cuz there always around, and yesterday i did but he never called back, and i wish he could text cuz imming n texting is soo much eaiser. and i want to kiss him but im too shy, and i wish tht he wud b bold to make the first move, like
i was the one to ask him to square dance at a camping trip, i asked him to semi, i asked him out, and always asked him to hang out, he never once asked me to hang out with him, and come to think of it he never said my name, except once he texted me and typed sarah, and im confused, when i try to hold his hands his hands move away i think, and when i try to kiss him like at a moment he looks and then looks away and we never tlk but im scared to call him and he asked me to winter ball and i dk if we wud last tht long but according to all my friends he has to
2006-12-24 10:41:46 · 9 answers · asked by sy♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're looking into this a little too much. So he likes to take the relationship slow. No biggy...If it bothers you then talk to him about it. Good Luck to you .
2006-12-24 10:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was just in the same problem are in now but it was me that was shy to do things. just maybe he won't to take things slow and maybe he had he's heart broken before and don't won't to take that change to get hurt again if that's the case. But i know that was me when my bf and i got together we talk about and now we are closer then ever. You guys just need to talk. without friends and family around. Just the two of u. One advice from me its okay to have friends around once in a while but not all the time. You guys need to spend time for your self's. good luck hope things go well write me and let me know if things going while for you. My email is tsmail2005@hotmail.com if you wont to talk. I'll be glad to help you out if you won't ttyl
2006-12-24 10:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by sweegirl200418 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I think you should get rid of this boy. He apparently is too shy for you! It seems as if he's not the right one. I think you be much happier with a different guy. Or just ask him What's going on?
2006-12-24 11:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not ready for a girlfriend. Doesnt everything that you just said sum it up.He might have just said yes when you asked him out because he doesnt feel the same ways as you feel about him, and he didnt want to hurt your feelings. He just wants to be friends so break up with him.
2006-12-24 10:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by kassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chemistry may not be there,for as gorgeous and nice a person you probably are,it just might not be it for him.
in life you will find dozens of guys who will fall for u like a ton of bricks,but along everyonce in awile comes a guy
who just does'nt get his "chimes"rung by you.it's nothin u
did or any thing personal.
trusy me u will meet someone and he simply will go way
down on your list.i thing you're preoccupied because
this has'nt happened to u before,and you're caught off
guard by this.
2006-12-24 10:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he just wants to be friends maybe he doesn't feel the same way. You should break the shyness and talk to him about it. Maybe you both are shy and maybe not. Talk to him it is the only way you will know the truth.
2006-12-24 11:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things. He may not be into all the intimate things that you are wanting.
2006-12-24 10:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think is better to take things slow rather than fast and not even enjoing it as you supossed 2
2006-12-25 05:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by BIG BALLER 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's just shy; so be patient.
2006-12-24 10:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋